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The Deadly 3-Step Dance

I was walking back to my flat, late one Wednesday night when I heard a voice calling out...”Help, I can’t get up.”

Looking across the lawn in front of some flats, I saw a figure lying there and when I arrived, recognised him as a neighbour I spoke with regularly.

James had stumbled when his crutch walker slipped on the wet path and he was unable to stop himself falling heavily to the ground.

With nothing more than his pride hurt, using a technique I learned some years ago, I was able to get this large man back on to his feet again.

I spent a few minutes calming him down and listening to him as he sobbed and related to me, once again, that…

“The doctor’s can’t do any more for me. I’m finished now.”

Is This Some Horrible Disease?

No.

James suffers from chronic pain in his right knee and lower back. Sadly, painkillers can only give partial relief at best and there comes a time when, there really is nothing more a doctor can do for him.

But I recognised that James has moved to the second phase in what I call… The Deadly 3-Step Dance.

Step 1. Helplessness.

When a situation arises or a medical condition emerges that seems so overwhelming, we feel unable to cope with. When our usual fighting spirit is rendered impotent.

Helplessness sets can set in.



In James case, when his condition appeared, he retreated to drinking alcohol and bemoaning his fate.

Instead of finding a way to deal with his condition, he accepted his role as ‘disabled’, stopped walking, sat down and drank.

Step 2. Hopelessness.

Here’s an interesting fact about your brain. It’s an amazing piece of kit but it’s also keen on energy conservation.

Just on ‘standby mode’ your brain consumes about 25% of the energy available to your whole body.

So if you don’t use a function for a period of time, your brain assumes you don’t want it any more and directs the energy available to it...somewhere else.

Use It Or Lose It!

That’s right, when the condition or situation becomes worse, as inaction will guarantee, it reinforces the feeling of impotence and we can give in to feeling all is hopeless.

And of course, the twins Helpless & Hopeless reinforce each other to the point where we are ready to slip effortlessly into the last stage.



Step 3. Pointlessness.

This is when someone has finally given up, rolled over and awaits their ‘fate’ or at least the destiny they imagine awaits them.

In this phase, it becomes almost impossible to help someone change the MindSet they have now created for themselves.

They firmly believe there really is no point in trying to change what they ‘know’ is the inevitable outcome.

They believe there is no escape from the chains which bind them to their fate.

Whether physical death occurs now or much later, they are, to all intents and purposes...spiritually dead!

Is There No Hope?

There is always hope. But what is needed is...certainty!

The fact is, there really are many scientifically proven alternatives to the 3-step dance but not enough of the people who need to know of them, actually do.

Mainly because these inconvenient truths are in my opinion being ignored by mainstream medical professionals and the media.

Personally, I have never know a medical professional encourage their patients to read any of these or similar books used in this article, for example.

The information is ‘out there’ freely available for all to read, yet the very people who would benefit the most, are the least likely to know of them.



I believe it’s up to you and me to bring the seeds of change by reading and promoting these wonderful books to those who need them and those who influence those who need them.

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Frank Mallon

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