24/11/2025
It still blows my mind how many parents tell me they’re cautious about taking a promotion or pay rise once they’ve got young kids.
I spoke to someone this week who was offered a £4,000 pay rise.
She was buzzing because she worked so hard for this.
Turns out, that “pay rise” could leave her £7,320 worse off.
Here’s what kicks in the moment you tip over £100,000 income:
1) Lose 30 hours free childcare (£6,840/year)
2) Lose Tax-Free Childcare (£2,000/year)
3) That extra income gets hit at an effective 62% tax
So instead of being £4,000 better off, she ends up with roughly £1,520 after tax, and lose £8,840 in support.
Net result: –£7,320.
Earn more and progress, absolutely. Just do it in a way that lets you actually keep the reward