01/10/2026
This is such an important conversation.
Understandably, parents are often keen for their young person to gain independence but sometimes that can translate into pressure to get to test before they’re genuinely ready for independent driving.
Passing the test isn’t the end goal. Being able to manage risk safely when nobody is sitting beside you is.
And parents have another important influence: how they drive themselves. Young people absorb what they see - attitudes towards speed, following distances, phones, other road users, frustration and risk can all become normalised long before they ever get behind the wheel.
We need to look at the bigger picture. It’s not simply about getting young people through a test. It’s about helping them develop the judgement, experience and attitudes that will keep them safe afterwards.