12/10/2026
Hello, I’m Shirley.
I’m a Counsellor and Mindset Coach, and a firm believer that understanding yourself can change an awful lot.
I’ve spent years working with people, and one thing I’ve learnt is that we can get ourselves into some pretty unhelpful patterns without even realising it.
We overthink. We put everyone else first. We say yes when we mean no. We doubt ourselves, replay conversations at 2am and wonder why we keep ending up in the same situations. Sound familiar?
And sometimes, despite everything looking fine on the outside, something just doesn’t feel right on the inside.
That’s where I come in.
I’m here to help you make sense of what’s going on, challenge some of those old ways of thinking and work out what needs to change. Not by telling you how to live your life, but by helping you understand yourself well enough to make choices that work for you.
I’m warm, honest and down-to-earth. I’ll listen, I’ll ask questions, and I’ll be straight with you. There’s room for the difficult stuff, the uncomfortable truths and, when appropriate, a bit of humour too.
I work with individuals and couples, online across the UK and internationally, as well as with local clients here in Spain. And if you’re living in Spain and discovering that the dream comes with its fair share of reality, you’re certainly not alone in that either!
You don’t need to have everything figured out before you get in touch. You just need to feel ready to start a conversation.
If you’d like to explore working together, send me a private message. We can take it from there.
Shirley ❤️
Your mindset matters…And so do you.
