20/08/2026
Results day has a funny way of making everyone feel like they need to have everything figured out by teatime.
The reality is, most families don't.
Whether your child is celebrating, disappointed or just exhausted by the whole experience, don't worry if they don't want to talk much once the day is over.
Some teenagers process things straight away. Others need a bit of time before they even know how they feel.
Instead of trying to have every conversation on results day, check in again a few days later.
Something as simple as:
"I've been thinking about the other day... how are you feeling about everything now?" often leads to a much more open conversation than it would have on the day itself.
As parents, we can sometimes put pressure on ourselves to get everything right in the moment. More often than not, it's the conversations that happen afterwards that make the biggest difference.
Come back to this a few days after results day - you might find that's when your child is finally ready to talk.