Tower Mindset Coaching

Tower Mindset Coaching I offer an independent, professional Life Coaching Service for adults, Youth, Sports People and Golfers. Are you ready to entertain new and fresh ideas?

I am dedicated to promoting:

- self awareness/management/development;
- better communication with oneself and others;
- optimism and purpose Do you feel that currently you aren’t reaching your potential and feeling fulfilled? Is there a gap of where you are now to where you want to be? Do you sometimes feel you don’t have the skills, resources or confidence to get something complete? Do you feel

stuck and put off making decisions or fail to stick to those decisions you have made? Are you willing to be accountable for what you desire? If you answer YES to any of these questions then coaching can most definitely support you to be the best that you can be.

Uplifting.
09/10/2025

Uplifting.

The Lili I see before me is not the same person she describes herself as. The Lili of today is bright and full of hope and confidence. She talks enthusiastically about her passion for dogs and her new business as a dog walker and sitter. She says if she could, she’d take home all the rescue dogs t...

09/10/2025

The Lili I see before me is not the same person she describes herself as. The Lili of today is bright and full of hope and confidence. She talks enthusiastically about her passion for dogs and her new business as a dog walker and sitter. She says if she could, she’d take home all the rescue dogs t...

08/10/2025

From the 8th to the 15th of October, we are taking part in the BigGive Women and Girls Match Fund 2025.

It means every pound donated will be DOUBLED. Your generosity will go TWICE as far in supporting young women across West Sussex!

How does your donation help?

The Juno Project provides support to young women experiencing significant challenges, most often with their mental health.

Our work contributes to positive outcomes such as

*A reduction in absence from school

* Improved self-awareness and relationships

* A greater sense of purpose and aspiration

Our target: £2,500 to become £5,000 with match funding! Starting MONDAY 8TH OCTOBER

Huge thanks to for their support of our charity and all those essential organisations being supported through this match fund.

Want to find out more about the campaign? Watch BigGive’s video: https://bit.ly/JunoBigGivePromo

Love a good 'visual'!
01/10/2025

Love a good 'visual'!

Understanding NT, ADHD, Autism, and AuDHD Through Simple Visuals
Sometimes words aren’t enough to explain how different brains work. That’s where visuals like this one come in — a simple drawing that powerfully illustrates how neurotypical (NT), ADHD, Autism, and AuDHD minds process life, thoughts, and experiences.
At first glance, the lines might look like random doodles. But each one represents the cognitive patterns and lived experiences of these different neurotypes. Let’s break it down.
1. Neurotypical (NT): The Straight Line
The straight line represents stability, predictability, and consistency.
Neurotypical individuals often experience life in a way that follows social expectations, routines, and structures.
Their thought processes are typically linear — start, middle, end.
This doesn’t mean life is easy, but it means that their brains usually follow the “default settings” society is built around.
That’s why many social systems (schools, workplaces, etc.) are designed with NT thinking in mind.
2. ADHD: The Interrupted Line with Zigs and Zags
The ADHD brain looks very different. Notice how the line starts straight, but then suddenly zigs and zags all over the place.
ADHD often involves inconsistent attention. Someone may start a task with focus, but quickly get distracted or pulled in multiple directions.
Hyperfocus can also appear — represented by the sudden dense scribbles — where someone gets absorbed in one thing and loses track of time.
It’s not a lack of intelligence or effort. It’s a different wiring of the brain that struggles with executive function (planning, prioritizing, finishing tasks).
This is why ADHD is often described as having “a race car brain with bicycle brakes.”
3. Autism: The Web of Expanding Lines
Instead of a straight path, the autistic brain is represented by lines spreading out in multiple directions.
Autism is characterized by intense focus, sensory differences, and unique ways of processing the world.
Rather than going from point A to point B, autistic thinking can branch out like a network — seeing connections, details, and patterns others might miss.
This is why many autistic people have strong special interests and a deep ability to hyperfocus on specific topics.
However, this nonlinear thinking can also create challenges in environments built for NTs, especially when sensory overload or social misunderstandings occur.
4. AuDHD (Autism + ADHD): The Organized Chaos
The final drawing looks like a storm of zig-zags and lines all overlapping. That’s AuDHD — when someone has both Autism and ADHD traits.
ADHD brings distractibility, impulsivity, and inconsistent focus.
Autism brings deep focus, need for structure, and sensitivity to sensory input.
When combined, these traits can sometimes feel contradictory. For example:
Wanting structure (autism) but struggling to stick to it (ADHD).
Getting hyperfocused (autism) but also easily distracted (ADHD).
Having brilliant ideas and creativity, but feeling stuck in executive dysfunction.
It can feel like living in constant chaos — but it also comes with unique strengths, like creativity, innovation, and the ability to see the world from perspectives that others overlook.
The Takeaway
This visual reminds us that there’s no single “right” way for a brain to function.
NT brains may be linear and predictable.
ADHD brains bring bursts of creativity and energy.
Autistic brains bring depth, pattern recognition, and unique insights.
AuDHD brains are a storm of contradictions, but also a powerhouse of perspective and innovation.
Instead of viewing these differences as flaws, society needs to embrace them as part of neurodiversity — the natural variety in human brains. Every line, whether straight or chaotic, is valid.

18/09/2025

Where do young people go for advice and help on relationships and sexual health?

This Sexual Health Week, BrookCharity is exploring how young people are navigating dating, consent, and intimacy in a world that’s “chronically online”.

There’s plenty of thoughtful, practical information to explore. Perfect for young people, parents, and teachers alike.

Take a look: https://www.brook.org.uk/shw/

11/07/2025

Working with marginalised young women and girls, The Juno Project is a brilliant West Sussex-based charity that first came to my attention a couple of years ago. Focussed on enabling young women to reach their best possible potential, no matter what, the mission is simple: encourage, enthuse, empowe...

Human behaviour...fascinating! (And you knew what the result was going to be, didn't you!)
13/06/2025

Human behaviour...fascinating! (And you knew what the result was going to be, didn't you!)

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16/04/2025

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🌎 Celebrating World Autism Acceptance Month ♾️ At The Juno Project, we believe in self-confidence, self-acceptance, and empowering young women to embrace who they truly are. April is World Autism Acceptance Month, a time to celebrate neurodiversity, challenge misconceptions, and promote under...

02/04/2025
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