Flute & Piano Lessons in Durham

27/09/2026

It’s that time of year again - Durham University students are back, and I’m looking forward to welcoming familiar faces and meeting some new ones too.

If you’ve been given the list of instrumental tutors, how do you choose? Nearest? Recommended by a friend? Best availability?

With around 40 years of teaching experience, including about 30 years working with Durham University students, I’ve seen just how important it is to find the right teacher for you.

I’ve taught flute and piano for around 40 years, including about 30 years with Durham University students.

If you’re looking for lessons this term, this may help you get started.

Looking for Durham University instrumental lessons? Find out how to choose the right flute or piano teacher, what to ask, and why a trial lesson can help.

15/08/2026

𝓛𝓮𝓽’𝓼 𝓰𝓮𝓽 𝓼𝓽𝓪𝓻𝓽𝓮𝓭

Many years ago, I went to my flute teacher, Mrs Anderson, with my own rather ambitious idea.

I wanted to study music at conservatoire.

There was just one slight problem.

I was practically a beginner on the flute.

Mrs Anderson could have told me how difficult it would be. She could have listed everything I couldn't yet do or suggested that perhaps I'd left it too late.

Instead, her response was beautifully simple:

𝓛𝓮𝓽’𝓼 𝓰𝓮𝓽 𝓼𝓽𝓪𝓻𝓽𝓮𝓭

And we did.

I practised. She taught. I practised some more.

Just 18 months later, I achieved Grade 8 flute with merit and went on to study music at conservatoire.

Looking back, what stays with me isn't only what Mrs Anderson taught me about playing the flute.

It's what she didn't do.

She didn't put a ceiling on what might be possible.

Sometimes a teacher's greatest gift isn't saying, “Look how far you've got to go.”

It's simply believing that the journey is worth beginning.

𝓛𝓮𝓽’𝓼 𝓰𝓮𝓽 𝓼𝓽𝓪𝓻𝓽𝓮𝓭

Four little words that helped change the direction of my life. ❤️

13/08/2026

When did I stop thinking the teacher had to know everything?

When I was learning music myself, the teacher was very definitely 𝓽𝓱𝓮 𝓽𝓮𝓪𝓬𝓱𝓮𝓻.

They knew.
I learned.
They explained.
I followed.

So when I became a teacher, it was natural to carry some of that thinking with me.

But over the years, something changed.

I began to realise that some of my best lessons weren't the ones where I had all the answers.

They were the ones where a student and I became curious together.

“Why do you think that keeps happening?”

“What would happen if we tried it this way?”

“Which version feels better to you?”

Sometimes we would try something and it wouldn't work at all. So we'd laugh, abandon that idea and try another.

Gradually, teaching became less about me standing on one side with the answers and the student sitting on the other waiting to receive them.

𝓦𝓮 𝔀𝓮𝓻𝓮 𝓸𝓷 𝓽𝓱𝓮 𝓼𝓪𝓶𝓮 𝓽𝓮𝓪𝓶.

I may have more experience and be there to guide the journey, but we're listening, noticing, experimenting and making music together.

And after more than forty years of teaching, I think that's one of the things I love about it most.

The teacher doesn't have to have all the answers. Sometimes a really good question is much more useful. ❤️

11/08/2026

Sometimes your journey begins before you realise you’re ready.

One summer, when I was still a young musician, my music teacher asked me to cover some of her pupils while she was away.

I don’t remember thinking, Right, this is the beginning of my teaching career.

It was much simpler than that.

There were some students who needed lessons. My teacher trusted me to teach them. So I said yes.

And I taught.

I didn’t have decades of experience behind me. I hadn’t yet developed all the ideas about teaching that I have now. I certainly couldn’t see where that little opportunity might eventually lead.

I just took the next step.

And perhaps that’s how many of the important things in our lives begin.

Not with a grand plan.

Not when we finally feel completely ready.

But with somebody opening a door and saying, “Would you like to have a go?”

More than forty years later, I’m still teaching — and still learning how to teach.

You don’t need to see the whole journey. Just take the next step. ❤️

08/08/2026

One of the biggest mistakes new tutors can make is trying to give too much in the first lesson.

Too much information can overwhelm a student.
Too many corrections can make them feel judged.
Too many instructions can leave them unsure what really matters.

A first lesson does not need to show the student everything they need to improve.

It needs to give them one useful step forward.

One clearer rhythm.
One freer hand shape.
One calmer breath.
One better sound.
One small moment where they think, “Oh, I understand.”

That small moment is powerful.

Good teaching is not about filling the lesson with information. It is about helping the student know what to do next.

07/08/2026

Does the Student Feel Welcome?

Before a student can learn well, they need to feel safe enough to try.

That is why the first lesson matters so much.

Yes, we need to listen to their playing.
Yes, we need to understand their level.
Yes, we need to notice what they can already do.

But we also need to notice the person.

Are they nervous?
Are they trying to please?
Are they worried about mistakes?
Are they unsure what to expect?

A first lesson is not only about music. It is about helping the student feel, “I think I can learn here.”

That feeling matters.

A student who feels welcome is more likely to listen, try, ask questions, make mistakes, and come back for the next lesson.

02/08/2026

A first lesson has four simple aims.

Help the student feel welcome.
Understand what they need.
Give them one useful experience of learning.
Make the next step obvious.

That is it.

Of course, there may be questions, playing, listening, conversation, note-taking, demonstrations and gentle guidance. But underneath all of that, the purpose is simple.

The student should leave knowing they have been seen, heard and helped.

They do not need to leave with everything fixed.
They do not need to understand the whole journey.
They simply need to know what the next step is.

That is what makes a first lesson feel successful.

01/08/2026

A first lesson should not feel like an audition.

The student is not there to prove they are good enough.
And the teacher is not there to prove they are impressive enough.

The first lesson is a chance to begin.

It is a chance for the student to feel comfortable.
It is a chance for the teacher to listen carefully.
It is a chance to discover what the student already understands, where they feel unsure, and what might help them next.

When we treat the first lesson as an exploration rather than a test, everything softens.

The student does not need to arrive polished.
The teacher does not need to have all the answers immediately.

You simply begin together, with curiosity, clarity and kindness.

30/07/2026

Before a student can learn well, they need to feel safe enough to try.

That is why the first lesson matters so much.

Yes, we need to listen to their playing.
Yes, we need to understand their level.
Yes, we need to notice what they can already do.

But we also need to notice the person.

Are they nervous?
Are they trying to please?
Are they worried about mistakes?
Are they unsure what to expect?

A first lesson is not only about music. It is about helping the student feel, “I think I can learn here.”

That feeling matters.

A student who feels welcome is more likely to listen, try, ask questions, make mistakes, and come back for the next lesson.