KJM Harmony

KJM Harmony Counselling Psychologist, Transformation Coach, Holistic Practitioner, Mindfulness Teacher

A wee Friday Funny..… !! 😂🌸This made me giggle this morning and I think we could all do with a wee reminder sometimes…No...
02/10/2026

A wee Friday Funny..… !! 😂🌸

This made me giggle this morning and I think we could all do with a wee reminder sometimes…

Not everyone is going to think you’re amazing.
Not everyone is going to get you.
Not everyone is going to appreciate your particular brand of you-ness. 😂

But that’s okay.

Maybe it’s perimenopause, maybe it’s just finally growing into myself… but I definitely give less of a s**t these days about what other people think! 😂 And being more unapologetically me is actually pretty liberating 😄 ❤️

So just keep being YOU!

Keep being your wonderfully imperfect, slightly bonkers, magical self.
Because there really is nobody else quite like you 😊✨

And if someone doesn’t think you’re magnificent… well… tough 😂😂

Happy Friday lovely people! 🌸❤️

Go be unapologetically YOU. 🥰

🍂 Hello October! 🍂 Ive been saying it a lot lately but i honestly feel like I blinked and here we are already in October...
01/10/2026

🍂 Hello October! 🍂

Ive been saying it a lot lately but i honestly feel like I blinked and here we are already in October! 😂

I really do love this time of year though. The changing leaves and colours, cosy jumpers, candles… and a pumpkin spice latte! 🎃☕️😂

It’s also a special day for me today as it’s my Grandad’s heavenly birthday. 🕊️🤍 I’ll be thinking of him, remembering him and all the memories we have 😍

Hello October… be kind to us... 🤎🍂☕️

Have a beautiful day everyone 💖

Goodbye September… but where did you actually go??!! 😂 🍂Honestly, this month seems to have disappeared quicker than any ...
30/09/2026

Goodbye September… but where did you actually go??!! 😂 🍂

Honestly, this month seems to have disappeared quicker than any other this year!! 😲

September has felt a little triggering for me this time around because it was September last year that I became unwell, so these past few weeks have brought up a lot of reflection — looking back over the past year, everything that happened, everything that changed, and just how far I’ve come.

And then, exactly a year later, I’ve started another chapter by returning to work.

I’m taking things slowly, listening to my body, and reminding myself that there really is no prize for rushing the process. Sometimes moving forward doesn’t mean pushing harder — sometimes it means taking one small step, then another, and allowing yourself to find your feet again.... 😊

Its easy to focus on the 'negatives ', what hasnt gone to plan or what has gone "wrong" etc etc , but I’m also grateful for what this past year has taught me, for the people who have walked alongside me and supported me, and for the parts of myself I’ve rediscovered along the way 🤍

So now we are stepping into October, fully into autumn, to whatever this next chapter has waiting for us... 😊 🍁

What are you leaving behind with September — and what are you making space for next month..? 🤔 🧡

🌿 A little love for your vagus nerve… 🌿You might have heard people talking about the vagus nerve and “regulating your ne...
29/09/2026

🌿 A little love for your vagus nerve… 🌿

You might have heard people talking about the vagus nerve and “regulating your nervous system” — but what actually is it, and why does it matter?

The vagus nerve is the longest cranial nerve in the body, travelling from the brain down through the neck and into areas including the heart, lungs and digestive system. It plays a really important role in the parasympathetic nervous system — the part of our nervous system involved in rest, recovery and helping the body come back down after stress.

When life feels constantly busy, stressful or overwhelming, our nervous system can spend a lot of time in that “on alert” state. Over time, this can affect our ability to properly switch off and recover.

This is why giving your nervous system little moments of calm throughout the day can be so helpful.

And one really simple thing you can try is humming. 💛

Humming naturally lengthens the exhale and creates gentle vibration around the throat and chest.

✨ Try this for a minute or two:

🌿 Breathe in slowly through your nose.
🌿 Then, as you breathe out, make a long, gentle “mmmmmm” sound.
🌿 Let the exhale be slow and comfortable.
🌿 Repeat several times.

You don't need to force a deep breath or make a loud sound. Just breathe, hum and allow yourself to slow down for a moment.

Think of it as giving your body a little reminder:
“You don't have to be on alert right now. It's okay to soften.” 🤍

And perhaps that's something we could all use a little more of .....
Small moments of calm, repeated regularly, can matter. ❤️

🌕 Full Moon Hangover…Anyone else feeling a little bit derailed with this full moon? 🌕😵‍💫If you’re someone who’s sensitiv...
28/09/2026

🌕 Full Moon Hangover…

Anyone else feeling a little bit derailed with this full moon? 🌕😵‍💫

If you’re someone who’s sensitive to the energy around a full moon, you might notice that the days afterwards can feel a little odd.... More emotional, tired, restless, sensitive or just not quite yourself...

Sometimes a full moon bring things to the surface — thoughts, feelings, realisations or things we’ve been carrying without really noticing. And perhaps the days afterwards are simply about letting everything settle rather than trying to rush on and carry on as normal.

I know ive been feeling it...A little all over the place, a bit flat and a little more tired than usual and definitely feeling like I need to slow things down.

Today i went for a massage, which gives me some temporary relief from physical aches and pains for a wee while .... and then I treated myself to an ice cream afterwards...and why not ?! 😄 🍦😂

Sometimes it’s just listening to what you need, slowing down a bit and giving yourself permission to do whatever you want to do, or not do..!

So if you’re feeling a little off, emotional or simply not quite yourself over the next few days, maybe give yourself a bit of space. Let things settle. Rest where you can. Be kind to yourself.🌕✨

Love to you all
Kirsty xx

I like this piece by Donna Ashworth, it really spoke to me.I’ve felt a lot like this over the past year. Some days it ha...
27/09/2026

I like this piece by Donna Ashworth, it really spoke to me.

I’ve felt a lot like this over the past year. Some days it hasn’t even felt like my body that’s tired — it’s felt like my SOUL is tired. That deeper kind of tiredness that sleep doesn’t always seem to touch.

Sometimes life takes us into periods where we don’t have all the answers, where we feel unsettled, emotional or simply just not quite ourselves. And perhaps we don’t always need to understand it straight away.

I love the idea of “soul-flu” as a way of describing those times when you just feel off — when you know you need to slow down, take a breath and give yourself some time.

Maybe part of us is changing , upgrading , but we may not realise it at the time.

Maybe we don’t need to push through everything. Maybe sometimes it’s okay to simply acknowledge that we’re tired, take things one day at a time and be a little kinder to ourselves along the way.

Because sometimes, rest really is what we need most. 🤍🌿

Have a soulful sunday my friends 🧡
Love kirsty ###

🌕✨ A little full moon thought for today…Tonight we have the September Full Moon — the Harvest Moon.I was out at a show l...
26/09/2026

🌕✨ A little full moon thought for today…

Tonight we have the September Full Moon — the Harvest Moon.

I was out at a show last night and, while I was standing outside cursing and moaning about the length of time it was taking the taxi to arrive 😂, I stood looking up at the moon.... 😊

She was such a beautiful distraction..

Bright, bold powerful and just shining her light. 🌕✨

Maybe that’s something we could all do a little more of....

Realistically it can be difficult to shine brightly all the time as lets face it, we all have days when we’re tired, overwhelmed or just getting through..🤪

BUT - allowing ourselves to be more of who we actually are ...👐

Doing more of the things that feel right for us. Spending time with people who make us feel like ourselves. Making space for the things we enjoy. Saying no when something doesn’t feel right. Saying yes when something does 😃.

Sometimes we spend so much time thinking about what we should be doing, what other people expect, or what everyone else seems to be doing, that we can lose sight of what actually feels good and meaningful to us.

The moon doesn’t try to be anything other than what she is.... she just shows up and shines !! ✨️

And maybe there’s a wee reminder in that for us too. 🤍

As we move further into autumn, perhaps it’s a good time to think about what we want to make more space for....? What we’ve outgrown. What feels right. What feels genuinely aligned with who we are and the life we want to create....?

So tonight, if you see the moon, take a minute to look at her.
And maybe take a moment and ask yourself:

“What do I want a little more of in my life...?” 🌕🍂

Love to you all
Kirsty x

🌕 Tomorrow brings the Harvest Full Moon 🌕I love a full moon 🌝   A chance to step back and notice what’s been going on be...
25/09/2026

🌕 Tomorrow brings the Harvest Full Moon 🌕

I love a full moon 🌝

A chance to step back and notice what’s been going on beneath the busyness of everyday life.

The Harvest Moon is often associated with completion, letting go and making space — and I quite like that as we move towards the end of September and into autumn 🍂

Maybe there are things you’ve been carrying that you don’t need to carry quite so tightly anymore.

Old expectations.
Things that didn’t work out the way you hoped.
A version of yourself you’ve outgrown.

And letting go can be a gradual thing. It can simply be recognising, “I don't think this is serving me anymore.”
Not everything that comes to an end is a failure. Sometimes an ending simply makes room for something different 👐

And like i mentioned yesterday....not everyone will know exactly what they’re moving towards either — and that’s okay too!!! . Sometimes you just know what you’re ready to leave behind, and the next step becomes clearer with time.. 😉

So perhaps take a little moment for yourself...
Think about what you’d like to release, what you’d like to keep, and what you’d like to make a little more room for.. ❤️

“As long as you believe that every step you’re taking will make a difference, you will reach your destination — no matte...
24/09/2026

“As long as you believe that every step you’re taking will make a difference, you will reach your destination — no matter how difficult your path is.”

Sometimes the path ahead might feel like a lot...

Some of us know where we’re going and have a clear idea of what we want. Others might not have a clue yet — and that’s okay too ! 😊

You don't always need to know the destination to know that you want things to feel different. There are days when you might wonder if you’re actually getting anywhere, especially when things are taking longer than you hoped or you feel like you’re taking one step forward and two steps back 😔

But remember… every step still counts... 🌟 Even the small ones..

And on the days when you feel like you haven't achieved very much at all, remember this:

You are still here.
You’re walking.
You’re talking.
You’re breathing.
You’re doing your best with what you have today.
That matters !!

You don't have to have the whole journey figured out...you maybe dont quite know where you're going next .. 😉

Sometimes you just need to take the next small step and trust that it will lead you somewhere... 😃

And if today feels like a lot, be kind to yourself ❤️

Take a breath. Take it slowly. And just take the next step. 🤍 you might not know exactly where that step will take you yet — but you don't have to 😘

Love to all
Kirsty xx

🍂 A new season, a fresh page…This morning I woke to heavy rain, thunder and flashes of lightning 🌩   i actually loved ly...
23/09/2026

🍂 A new season, a fresh page…

This morning I woke to heavy rain, thunder and flashes of lightning 🌩 i actually loved lying there listening to it, with my bedroom window open. There was something really calming about it — the sound of the rain and the cool air coming in.

Almost like a cleanse..... as if the rain was washing away some of what has gone before, making space for whatever comes next 😊 🌧️

Its the autumn Equinox — that point where day and night are almost equal, before the nights gradually begin to draw in.

I think there’s something quite beautiful about what autumn reminds us of...
Letting go.

The trees don’t cling to their leaves....they simply let them fall when the time is right.. 🍂

Maybe we can learn something from that...

We don’t always have to hold onto old versions of ourselves, old expectations, things that no longer fit, or chapters that have already run their course.

Sometimes letting go isn’t about giving up.
It’s about making space.
Space for rest.
Space for change.
Space for something different.

I really like this time of year 😃 There’s something about the darker mornings, cooler air and changing colours that makes me want to slow down a little.....

And maybe that’s what autumn is quietly asking us to do too — to notice what we’re ready to let go of, and what we want to carry forward into a new season ❤️.

Nothing rushed.... just allowing things to change, as they naturally do. 🍂🤎

Happy Autumn Equinox everyone xx

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