03/09/2026
A few years ago, everything .ie had asked for started arriving at once: the bigger stages, the real money, my name in the Irish Independent and Stellar, on RTร and Newstalk, on Fox News in Detroit.
Do you know what she did with all of it? She went blasรฉ!
A friend actually pulled her up on it.
There she was, mentioning that she was writing a book and speaking on American stages in the same flat tone she'd use to say she'd booked the car in for a service.
Her friend looked at Jennifer and said, "Do you hear yourself?"
Jennifer was dimming the whole thing down, making it smaller as it came out of her mouth, because some old part of her had decided it was safer to act like none of it was a big deal than to stand fully in the fact that it was.
That's the fear nobody recognises as fear...
It doesn't always look like hiding under the duvet. Sometimes it looks like being suspiciously blasรฉ about the best, most exciting year in your business, because if you don't make it matter, then you don't have to change, and you don't have to risk others seeing you differently, or worry it might cost you a friendship.
And she's not an exception to the rule(!), which is why she's taken a forensic look into why ambitious women fear success for : https://www.highflyingdesign.com/magazine/mindset/fear-of-success