12/10/2026
Stop scrolling and listen to the waves 🌊
When was the last time you paused to really pay attention to how you are feeling?
I don’t just mean feeling stressed, overwhelmed or unsatisfied, I mean really understand what is causing you to feel how you do and how that feels in your body.
It might be the countless responsibilities and pressure you put on yourself by automatically taking care of everything for the kids, the family events, at work and the feeling of resentment that builds because you seldom get offers for help.
And when you do, you say you’ve got it covered because you’re too afraid to admit you don’t feel like you’re coping when everyone else seems to have everything held together… so you should too, right?
The reality is, most people are feeling the struggle, and just like you, they feel everyone else has it all held together.
This feeling then manifests as a heaviness in the body… headaches, tension in your neck and shoulders or a stomach ache that you’ve had for so long, you’ve forgotten what’s it’s like to not feel that way.
So it becomes a vicious circle and a way of being that you don’t even pause to realise that you have a choice to do something different today… to make your life feel easier.
That you can say ‘no’ when asked to take on that extra project at work because you’re already maxed out.
That you can share the responsibility of your family with your husband because they are his kids too.
That you could hire a cleaner to blitz your house once a week and get your Saturday’s back.
When you give yourself that pause, these choices become clear.
The only person that gets to decide how you live your life, is you.
So take a pause. Listen to the waves and make a choice today to start putting yourself first.
If you’d like support on where to begin, how to gain clarity and confidence to take back control of your own life with choice, I’m here for you.
DM me and let’s have a chat 💗