Bounce Back Queen

Bounce Back Queen

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I support women turning setbacks into bounce backs. I’m neither townie nor country bumpkin but some weird mix of both….. It works for me!

I’m in that middle ground – 50 ‘something’ not quite closing on retirement but realising that 50 actually isn’t ‘middleaged’ after all – I think I missed that bit. I’m a Mum to two grown lads who have both flown the nest following their own dreams at University and trialling new careers – luckily for me within 2 hours drive/train ride and a less than half an hour from each other! I’m living with m

04/12/2025

This morning’s lesson in “personal growth I didn’t ask for but here we are”…
…courtesy of the 1130 train to Manchester. 🚆✨

I walked on with a reserved seat, feeling very smug and organised… only to find my table completely full.
Absolutely rammed.
And the people sat there?
Let’s just say… not the type I fancied tapping on the shoulder before lunch.

Old me would’ve stood my ground, pointed out my seat number and probably thrown in a full TED Talk on why reservations exist for a reason.

Instead, I heard myself mutter:
“I guess I’m not sitting in my own seat then…”
(This is British for: “I’m furious but I’m also too tired for confrontation.”)

And then… I just walked on.
Found another seat.
Sat down.
Exhaled.

And you know what?
It felt… strangely freeing.

Not everything needs a battle.
Not every moment needs me to prove a point.
Sometimes peace tastes better than being right — especially when I’m on my way to Christmas markets with my mum and a gorgeous catch-up with my boys. 🎄💕

Tiny win.
Tiny reminder.
Not every wobble needs to knock your day off track.
Sometimes it’s okay to roll your eyes, mutter under your breath, and keep walking.

Phoenix energy, even on the train. 🔥🫶

Photos from Drew Barrymore's post 14/11/2025

This hits today. Be kinder to yourself x

12/11/2025

Reason 41

Confidence that's infectious.

11/11/2025

Reason 40

Victory in every step.

10/11/2025

Reason 39

Feeling steady in your body.

10/11/2025

So… apparently my ‘I’m totally ahead and organised’ era lasted about three weeks 😅
Life got noisy, I blinked, and a few of my ‘50 Reasons You’ll Love Losing’ posts snuck off for a mini holiday.
But hey — if that’s not the definition of bouncing back, I don’t know what is. 💃
Because missing a few days doesn’t mean failure… it just means you’re human.
So, we’re picking up right where we left off with Reason 40 tomorrow — and keeping it real all the way to 60!

04/11/2025

Reason 37

Sitting on the floor and getting up easily 🪑 Because life shouldn't come with groans.

03/11/2025

Reason 36

No more digging waistband marks on your tummy 🙌 Comfort matters.

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