26/09/2026
🔷️Are you spoiling your baby?
We’ll answer this one for you... NO – you can not spoil a baby!
🔶️ "You’re spoiling your baby by cuddling them too much and picking them up every time they cry.”
Did you know that it’s actually impossible to spoil a baby and that cuddling your baby is beneficial for both them and you? Oxytocin - the feel-good hormone - increases in both mothers and babies during a cuddle.
🔷️ Babies are not trying to manipulate you with their cries. They cry when something is wrong, and they need you. Responding to your baby’s cries helps develop trust, teaching your baby that you will be there to help when they need something.
🔶️A parent who ignores a baby’s need for comfort can lead to an insecure attachment.
Securely attached children seek their parents when distressed and know they will be comforted.
🔷️ Psychologists Dr Karen Appleyard, Ph.D. & Dr Lisa J. Berlin, Ph.D explain why a secure attachment is important:
“A secure attachment is characterized by the child’s ability to use his or her parent as a source of comfort and a “secure base” from which to explore. A key principle of attachment theory is that dependence leads to independence.
In other words, it is only when a child feels confident in his parent’s availability that he can fully explore and play on his own.
Early attachments lay the foundation for social and academic skills. A number of studies that have followed children from infancy to adolescence or adulthood have illustrated that attachment quality is one of the strongest predictors of later development.”
🥰 So cuddle your baby, feed your baby, and carry your baby! Your instincts are there for a reason - trust them!