The Sex Ed Club

10/08/2026

So much of the conversation around s*x and relationships focuses on what's "wrong." I like to bring a bit of creativity, and even a little joy, into this work too.

Sometimes it's not about fixing something broken. Sometimes it's about coming home to yourself.

I work with individuals and couples in Brighton (in-person) and online across the UK, on body image, self-esteem, intimacy, desire, connection, and everything in between.

Want to know more? My profile has all the details:

Nikki Scott, Psychotherapist, Brighton, BN2, S*xual shame, pain, mismatched desire, the things everyone Googles and nobody says out loud. I work with individuals and couples on all of it, without the clinical distance. My approach is warm, direct, and genuinely curious about what you want, not what....

30/07/2026

My practice is trauma-informed and GSRD (Gender, S*xuality, and Relationship Diversity) inclusive.

That means whoever you are, whatever your relationship looks like, monogamous, polyamorous, something in between and wherever you are in your journey, you're welcome exactly as you are. Nothing is considered 'normal' in my practise, you are not broken or damaged for wanting something uniquely yours. Heteros*xuality is valid and so are all the other flavours of identity. 🏳️‍🌈

I work with individuals and couples, LGBTQ+ and allied communities, and I'm s*x-positive and kink-friendly too.
If you've been looking for a space like that, I'd love to hear from you:

https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/counselling/nikki-scott-brighton/1780454

27/07/2026

Everyone's story is different, so why would one model of therapy work for everyone?

I work pluralistically, through an intersectional feminist lens, meaning I draw from a range of approaches and tailor things to you.

Together we build a fuller picture of where you're at, how you got here, and what's actually shaped that: your history, your identity, your body, your culture, all of it.

From there, we figure out goals that are genuinely yours.
Curious what that looks like in practice?

Nikki Scott, Psychotherapist, Brighton, BN2, S*xual shame, pain, mismatched desire, the things everyone Googles and nobody says out loud. I work with individuals and couples on all of it, without the clinical distance. My approach is warm, direct, and genuinely curious about what you want, not what....

24/07/2026

New mini Stack just dropped 🔥

When was the last time you learnt some truly valuable s*x ed?

20/07/2026

"My libido's just gone, it happens at my age" 🙃 I hear a version of this a lot, usually said with a depleted shrug like it's something that has slipped through their fingers.

Here's what's actually true: desire doesn't disappear at midlife. It changes shape. Hormones shift, sure. But so does everything else; stress, resentment, body image, the unspoken stuff in a relationship, decades of being taught that s*x is for other people's pleasure first.

Low desire is information, not a diagnosis. It's usually pointing at something specific and workable, not a full stop.

If someone's told you to just accept it, I'd gently push back on that one.

14/07/2026

Hi, I'm Nikki 👋

I'm a COSRT-registered s*x and relationship therapist, and I've just opened The S*x Ed Club Therapy Practise, based in Brighton, and online across the UK.

I work with individuals and couples on desire that's changed shape, s*x after kids or a long relationship, pain, identity, and all the stuff nobody quite says out loud. Especially at 30, 40, 50+, when most conversations about s*x quietly assume you've aged out of the topic.

You haven't. It's just changed shape. That's kind of the whole point of this page, real, honest s*x education, no clinical distance, and no pretending you're broken because your s*x life doesn't look like it did at 25.

Come say hello, and have a read here if you're curious:

S*x therapy for women and LGBTQIA+ clients in Brighton and online across the UK. The S*x Ed Club offers specialist one-to-one and couples therapy for s*xual dysfunction, intimacy, identity, and more. Join the waitlist today.

13/07/2026

S*xual shame. Pain during s*x. Wanting different things from your partner. These are some of the most common things people search for late at night, and some of the hardest things to say out loud to anyone.

I work with individuals and couples on all of it, without the clinical distance.

My approach is warm, direct, and genuinely curious about what you want, not what you think you're supposed to want. 💛

If any of this sounds familiar, you don't have to figure it out alone.

More about me and how I work:

Nikki Scott, Counsellor, Brighton, BN2, S*xual shame, pain, mismatched desire, the things everyone Googles and nobody says out loud. I work with individuals and couples on all of it, without the clinical distance. My approach is warm, direct, and genuinely curious about what you want, not what you t...

03/07/2026

Let's talk about the conversation you've never quite had out loud.

The one about the s*x life you were promised versus the one you've actually got. About desire that's changed shape with age, kids, illness, divorce, or just... life. About the questions you've sat with for years because it felt too awkward, too private, or too "not now" to ask anyone.

After four and half years of blood, sweat, tears, and an exceptionally colourful search history, I am absolutely elated to be able to say I'm launching my therapy practice, and I want to be really clear about why.

Most of the s*x education any of us got was built for 15 - 25 year olds, aimed at avoiding pregnancy and STIs, and never once mentioning that your body, your desire, or your relationship might look completely different by the time you're 40, 50, 60+. Nobody handed you an updated manual for that. So a lot of people just quietly assume something's wrong with them.

Nothing is wrong with you. The manual was incomplete.

As a COSRT-registered s*x and relationship therapist and s*x educator (yes, teacher-turned-therapist, draw your own conclusions). I work with individuals and couples, in Brighton and online across the UK, on the stuff that doesn't come up at dinner parties: mismatched libido, pain during s*x, intimacy after everything's changed, questions about s*xual identity, and rebuilding a s*x life that actually fits the person you are now.

My practice is queer-affirming and feminist by design, not as a footnote.

I'm keeping my caseload small and deliberate, 10 spaces at a time, because this deserves real attention, not a rushed 50 minutes on a conveyor belt.

If any of this is landing for you, or for someone you love, the waitlist is open. And if it's not you but you know who it is, feel free to share this. That's usually how these conversations start.

https://www.thes*xedclub.com/therapy

29/05/2026

Are you a good girl?

I'd like to hope not, find my Anti Good Girl Guide on my new blog ⤵️

Happy reading 📚

building Self esteem

20/05/2026

Okay, let's settle this once and for all. 👇

The word most of us were taught in s*x ed? WRONG.

We've been calling the v***a the va**na for DECADES and honestly… it's time we fixed that. 🌸

The va**na is the internal canal.
The v***a is everything on the outside: the l***a, the cl****is, all of it.

And before you say "does it really matter?" yes. YES it does.

Because when we can't name our own body parts correctly, we struggle to:
✨ Talk about our health
✨ Communicate our needs
✨ Feel confident in our own skin

Language isn't just semantics. It's power.

I've written all about it on the blog, pop the kettle on and give it a read 👇

🔗 www.thes*xedclub.com/blog

And tell me in the comments, what did YOUR s*x ed get wrong? (I have a feeling the list will be long… 😅)

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