08/09/2026
💙 They cried when you left this morning… are they still crying now?
With lots of new children joining us at the moment, we know there are probably a few parents walking away from drop-off with a lump in their throat too!
Starting preschool is a big transition, and settling in looks different for every child.
Some wave goodbye without a backwards glance.
Some need a cuddle and a few tears first.
Some are absolutely fine for a week… and then decide they’re not so sure about this preschool business after all! 😂
Our latest blog is all about settling into preschool, saying goodbye and building secure relationships.
We explain what actually happens after you leave, how we comfort children who are upset, why we use visual timelines to help them understand when you're coming back, and why we'll always change our settling-in approach if your child needs something different.
We’ve also included lots of practical ideas for home — from creating a confident goodbye routine to the language you can use when your child is finding separation difficult.
And perhaps the most important message of all:
The goal of settling in isn't “no tears”.
It's helping your child gradually discover:
💙 I can miss you and still be okay.
💙 There are other grown-ups here who will care for me.
💙 This is somewhere I belong.
💙 You always come back.
If you're currently in the thick of preschool settling-in, this one is for you.
👉 Read our latest blog: Starting Preschool: Settling In, Saying Goodbye and Building Secure Relationships
Kind Hearts Preschool is a childcare setting, based in Brentwood, for chlidren aged between 2 years and compulsory school age.