30/08/2026
Lessons from the herd #5
Stay true to yourself when the world around you changes.
The evenings are drawing in now, and at the farm we are beginning to think about the shift from summer routines to winter ones.
The horses will adapt. They will use the land differently. Their coats will change. Their patterns of resting, grazing and moving will alter as the weather, light and ground conditions shift around them. They respond to what is happening, but they don’t lose themselves in it.
The outside changes, but there is still something deeply steady at the centre of each horse. Johnny is still his sensitive self, choosing his people and requesting routine; Texas is still master of all he surveys; and Dude - well Dude will always be a dude. They do not seem to question who they are because the conditions around them have altered. They adjust what they do, without abandoning what they are.
I keep thinking that there is something very powerful in that. Our surroundings change and sometimes when we least expect it. Relationships change, work changes, expectations change - of ourselves and of others. Sometimes entire chapters of our lives shift around us.
And it can be so tempting to shift with all of it — to become what the situation seems to require, what other people expect, or what feels easiest in the moment.
But perhaps the herd offers another way. Perhaps what we can take from this grounded way of being, is that we can adapt where we need to. You can change your routine, change your pace, or even find a different way through; but you don’t need to move away and change who you are.
So when life around you is shifting and perhaps doesn’t flow the way you were expecting it to, stay grounded in yourself. Stay grounded in what matters to you, in what you value, and in the part of you that does not need to be rewritten every time life around you changes.
Lesson #5: let your surroundings change without letting them decide who you are.