EmPower & Balance- Life Coach and Energy Guide

EmPower & Balance- Life Coach and Energy Guide Im Emma B šŸ¤šŸ–¤
I help mothers, carers & sensitive souls move from overwhelm to alignment — so they can nurture from fullness, not fatigue.

Through intuitive coaching & Angelic Reiki, I guide givers back to their calm, clarity, and courage.

I’m creating a space for parents and carers to be in a room with people who understand. I use the term EBSA (emotionally...
19/09/2026

I’m creating a space for parents and carers to be in a room with people who understand.

I use the term EBSA (emotionally based school avoidance) as it’s widely known but, I’m sure like many others who support children living with EBSA, I don’t feel it is 100% the right term. It puts too much emphasis on the child being the problem and doesn’t leave space to account for the environment that the child is in and that may be driving the emotional avoidance or other factors, but that’s a story for another day.

If you’re interested in being with a community of parents and carers who have lived experience of EBSA, comment SPACE and il keep you in the loop šŸ¤

A post I wrote from the heart on holiday but I’ve been too scared to send out into the universe ā˜€ļø Having time to work t...
18/09/2026

A post I wrote from the heart on holiday but I’ve been too scared to send out into the universe ā˜€ļø

Having time to work through this amazing book has been so inspiring, exciting and insightful for what my souls next step is.

The work that keeps coming up for me to do next is deeply personal but I feel that I can do good and create something that I believe is missing.

I consider myself so very very blessed to have people in our life that really and deeply understand our family struggles around school attendance and neurodivergence and even then, it’s a lonely place to be. I dread to think what it’s like to be a single parent, have a school who isn’t understanding or have little friends and family who truly understand.

There are a few amazing collaborative projects I am working on with the most amazing friends and I am so mega excited for these to be launched.

However, I’ve realised that the time has come to stop resisting (hello limiting beliefs and self sabotage blocks) and to start combining my many years of experience of working with families, children and young people with my more recent self and family experiences and my training in coaching and energy work.

Working with children, young people and families is complex and delicate work, so it’s taking some time to prepare.

My solo starting point is to hold listening circles, for parents and carers of children and young people who struggle with attending an education setting.

Not to fix, judge or assess anyone but to just create a container for people to share their experiences with those that simply ā€œget itā€, through their own lived experiences.

I will of course be bringing in nervous system work, such as mindfulness & meditations, as this for me is where the magic happens. When we start to regulate our own nervous system it has a ripple effect.

This is just the start of the most amazing year of creating communities through EmPower & Balance and also working with my dearest collaborators…… stay tuned.

For now, comment below with the word SPACE to hear more about my EBSA (environment/emotionally based school avoidance) circles.

Sending all the love in the world šŸŒ

11/09/2026

Anyone else feel the need to declutter and get organised?

03/09/2026

If your child(ren) struggle with their education setting…. I’m sending you some extra love as we return to school.

The ā€œback to schoolā€ buzz can be great for some but tricky for so many.

There’s a grief that isn’t often talked about (in my experience), when you realise that your child doesn’t find the same easiness or joy from the things their peers do. Hello world book day šŸ‘‹ 🤢 I’m dreading that one already!

However, in these moments I remind myself that I am one of the lucky ones. Someone who has a supportive partner and friends that really get it and understand and listen to my ramblings šŸ™šŸ»

For those that need a listening ear, please know my DMs are open. If I don’t message back straight away, it’s likely we are trying to stay regulated but I will take time to read and reply.

Please remember that safety comes before learning and trust your gut šŸ«¶šŸ»

30/08/2026

Thank you for today, it was a beaut 🌻

When life throws you a sh*tter… or 2…it’s so easy to get lost and consumed.

We don’t need to beat ourselves up for feeling crappy, sometimes we just need to wallow but I like to remind myself that I always have a choice.

The choice to remember how powerful we all are and the options we have.

To either stay stuck or take some positive actions to help shift us, even if just a tiny little bit!

We have a choice to stay in that place of darkness or start looking to some light, some glimmers.

The science is there….

🌻gratitude
🌻moving our body
🌻nature
🌻being with those we love
🌻trying something new

They all help us shift closer to the nicer feels and today reminded me of that! It wasn’t grand, expensive or complicated but it was simple and full of goodness.

Thank you

13/08/2026

Check out https://orlo.uk/LUIqD to hear from a parent who has completed her Togetherness learning pathway and reflected on what she has learned.

It’s lovely to hear how Kirstie’s Togetherness journey has given her new ways to think about those difficult parenting moments many families will recognise. Sometimes, pausing and looking beyond behaviour can open up a different way of understanding what our children might need.

Our Togetherness sponsorship gives local families access to learn about big feelings and much more. Simply use our access code PUFFIN here https://orlo.uk/vSI4r

13/08/2026

Your results don’t define you šŸ’™

Exam results day can bring a whole mix of emotions - excitement, relief, disappointment, or uncertainty about what comes next.

Whatever your results look like today, remember: a number, grade or outcome cannot measure your worth, your potential or everything you’ve achieved.

There is no single path to success, and it’s okay if your next step looks different from what you expected.

Be kind to yourself today. Take a breath, talk to someone you trust, and remember that one result does not define your future.

Visit heymind.org.uk to learn more about support we offer.

12/08/2026

Finish this sentence, I never have time to…………

I’m pretty sure that most people will be able to finish that sentence. For most of us it can be ourselves and our wellbeing that we keep ā€œputting offā€ but sometimes it’s just the little jobs or tasks that we continuously put off that really get to us!

For me, putting off watering my plants makes me feel so guilty (poor plants) 🪓 and it reminds me of my limiting mantra that ā€œI just don’t have the timeā€.

So, by being a ā€œrebelā€ and doing the thing I want or feel I need to do but it just ā€œnever have time forā€ (especial when I do the thing and realise the world didn’t stop šŸ˜†) helps to remind me, that I actually do have the time.

It never takes as long as I think it would and that dopamine hit, of a tick off the list, is a great motivator for other little jobs too.

Go and do that 5 minute job or just sit in peace and listen to the birds for 5 minutes ā˜€ļø

If you need some help to prioritise your self-care time, and have something coming up that will help you!

08/08/2026

Those moments of JOY you didn’t expect ✨

I don’t know if it’s the energy of The Universe, life situations and/or the fact I’m finding it really hard at the moment to stick to my self-care practices but I’ve started to wonder where my feelings of joy and bliss have gone to.

I am ALL about the yin and yang ā˜Æļø of being a human. We all have light and shadow sides, including our emotions and ultimately they help each other out.

I know myself well and I trust that feeling lower in mood and energy is only temporary (usually linked to the moon and menstrual cycles) but every now and again, I notice that I get a bit stuck. I do feel the brighter and lighter emotions but they don’t last as long and this is where I’m at now.

So, here I am, looking at why because our emotions are there to guide us (if we choose to truly listen).

Since having some space on holiday ā˜€ļø Ive realised how much I’ve been stuck working too much in my masculine energy. My head and the to-do list is never switching off. I think this is a main reason why my tingly, ā€œI fu***ng love lifeā€, feeling has gone.

It’s been another busy week, getting back to work after our holidays, so yesterday I chose to truly pause (not just doom-scroll). I took a book with me whilst I sat and my youngest played at the skate park. There was sun, kids playing music, children (and adults) having fun and I even did a spot of cloud watching…. And there it was, that feeling of peace, bliss and pure joy in the simple things.

There’s always going to be stuff to do but ultimately, how we feel is what’s important in life.

I’d love to know where do you find your little glimmers?

02/08/2026

ā˜€ļø Sitting on my balcony in beautiful Kos, I was tempted to ā€œuse this time wiselyā€ and get a chapter read of my book.

However, I realised all I wanted to do was look into the distance and admire the view 🌊

My brain is still on a come down from being ā€œonā€ all the time. 🧠

If this is you, be gentle with your mind, it needs patience and ease to remember how to be calm.

Just notice when you feel the urge to do more, especially when you know you need to just rest.

If you feel able to, feel the urge but resist to do more and distract with a gentle activity instead.

Or, if you’re feeling brave… do f**k all šŸ’ŖšŸ»šŸŽ‰

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