Vi Barling Coaching

23/08/2025

Feeling overwhelmed by clutter?

Whether you’re downsizing, moving, or feeling stuck where you are, I can help you create the space and freedom you deserve.

As a Declutter Therapist, Hoarding Specialist, and Certified Hypnotherapist & Coach, I combine practical strategies with mindset support to help you:
🌻Let go of what no longer serves you
💕Create calm, organized spaces that feel like home
🌻Shift patterns that keep you stuck
💕Move forward with clarity and confidence

Decluttering isn’t just about the stuff, it’s about reclaiming your peace of mind.

📩 Drop me a message today to book a free discovery call and take the first step toward a lighter, brighter future.

You don’t have to do it alone.

Explore hypnotherapy, NLP therapy, and Evolutionary Coaching® to overcome obstacles and achieve success. Start your journey to resilience and growth today.

20/08/2025

Taking the First Step Isn’t Easy. But You Don’t Have to Do It Alone 🌟

Every time I meet someone new who is affected by hoarding disorder, I know how much courage it takes to reach out. It’s not just about decluttering a home it’s about sharing your story, your struggles, and your hopes for the future.

When you choose to work with me, here’s what it means:
💜 You’ll be met with kindness, not judgement.
💜 We’ll go at your pace, one small step at a time.
💜 You’ll have someone walking beside you who truly understands the challenges of hoarding disorder.

What I hope it means for you:
🌻A sigh of relief, knowing you’re not alone anymore.
🌻A safe space where your voice matters.
🌻Hope that change, however small, really is possible.

Reaching out can feel scary, but it’s also the start of a new chapter. If you, or someone you love, is struggling with hoarding, please know that support is here.

Send me a message today and let’s take that first step together.

You are not alone.

24/06/2025

💫This evening marks a really special moment – the first step in a journey to change how hoarding is understood and supported in our community.

If you are affected by hoarding, you are warmly invited to come along, meet me and others who truly understand, and share a cuppa and a slice of cake in a safe, welcoming space.

No pressure. No judgement. Just a friendly chat, support from people who get it, and a chance to be part of something positive.

I’m so proud to be part of this new initiative and I’m deeply grateful to Cottsway Housing, my lovely WRFM- Radio for Oxfordshire & The Cotswolds family who’ve believed in this work from the start, and Travis Perkins for their kind support.

I believe we can change the way hoarding is treated. Let’s show true compassion, with proper support, and hope.

🍰 Cake and kindness guaranteed.

Let’s start something good together. 💙

20/06/2025

28/03/2025

In the upside down 🙃
The Vi Life on WRFM

24/03/2025

Sweetie, darling… is your home looking ‘Ab Fab’ or more ‘Abso-bloody-lutely Flip’in Chaotic’?

Picture it: You strut into your living room, expecting sleek minimalism, but instead, you trip over a mountain of shopping bags (contents unknown), a tower of vintage magazines (circa 1992), and….oh look….another unopened box of designer kaftans you absolutely needed.
Sound familiar?

Let’s be real. If Patsy and Eddie were left to their own devices, their penthouse would have been a clutter catastrophe, champagne bottles, fashion relics, and just a touch of existential chaos. And much like them, clutter can start off as a bit of fun….until it takes over your life.

But darlings, you don’t have to go full ‘bohemian mess’ to recognize when chronic disorganization or hoarding disorder is creeping in. That’s where Declutterbugz and Hoard Halt come in.

🌻 Need a gentle nudge (or a firm push) towards reclaiming your space? I’m here.
🌻 Feeling overwhelmed and don’t know where to start? I do.
🌻 Need someone who gets it (minus the judgment, plus the solutions)? That’s literally our thing.

So, if your home is looking more ‘Ab Fab disaster’ than ‘Ab Fab chic’, and you’re ready to swap the clutter for calm, give me a shout. No bolly required.

30/01/2025

Struggling with Hoarding? You’re Not Alone.

If you feel overwhelmed by clutter, ashamed of your home, or afraid of being judged, please know this: hoarding disorder is not your fault.

It’s not laziness. It’s not a bad habit. It’s a complex challenge tied to anxiety, trauma, and deep emotions. And real support isn’t about forcing you to throw everything away—it’s about helping you regain control, at your own pace, in a way that feels safe.

✅ You deserve understanding, not shame.
✅ You need support, not pressure.
✅ You have the right to work at a pace that feels okay for you.

Forced clear-outs don’t work. Quick fixes don’t last. But small steps, taken with the right guidance, can change everything.

You are not alone in this. Help is out there, and you deserve it. When you’re ready, reach out. There is hope, and there is a way forward.

26/01/2025

I have a dream that hoarding disorder will come out of the shadows and be understood and embraced