13/10/2024
Yes, I choose to do acts of kindness and pace with love in my service to others.
However I refuse to take on board the victimised excuses and justifications people have for their choices. Choice is a free will given to everyone.
How many times did you have an ar****le coming to you and expect you to forgive them and have you repress your anger because they managed to make you feel sorry for them? I do not lay in for that, neither buy their points of view.
I know this might sound harsh to some of you. However how many times have you been manipulated or became the recipient of another person's demons by being too understanding of their situation. Did they show understanding for yours? Possibly not. This is a great tool narcissists use to turn things around and manipulate you to believe you are the problem or not acknowledge they are part of the problem. This is totally disengaging in the responsibility they have to others and themselves.
And as for compassion, I refuse to place myself in a superior place than others by making them think I feel sorry for them. Again, free will. And also, I find that feeling sorry for other people is the best way to disempower them, so, not for me, thank you. I'd like to see myself in a world where everyone takes responsibility in their actions and acknowledges when they've been wrong, and says sorry.
This is why I choose instead to do acts of kindness, because I recognise and validate by my actions that I can be loving and caring for the ones around me, without having to attach any string of debt or superiority.
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