19/08/2026
I’d give single women 25–35 these advice:
Don’t choose a partner out of fear of being alone. Being single at 30 is infinitely better than being married to someone who drains you, disrespects you, or makes you abandon yourself.
Protect your independence—even in a great relationship.
Keep your own savings, career skills, friendships, identity, and understanding of your finances. Love should create partnership, not dependency.
Learn to leave when the relationship consistently violates your non-negotiables.
Don't spend years hoping someone will become the person they occasionally promise to be. If there is manipulation, repeated betrayal, contempt, coercive control, or abuse, take it seriously.
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