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Andy & Jules left the UK at 50, moved to Spain in 90 days, and built a life they don't need a holiday from. Ready to design your second act after 50? Life after 50 can feel like a crossroads, especially when you’ve ticked all the boxes on paper but still feel restless, stuck, or unsure what comes next. ONE LIFE is for Gen X, midlife and people over 50 who want more freedom, meaning, and purpose in

this next chapter, whether you’re retired, still working, or somewhere in between.​

Here's what we offer:

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Designed to help you cut through the confusion fast.

👉 3-Hour Coaching Bundle
Extended support for your next chapter.

👉 2-Day Breakthrough in Spain
Step away, reset, and make real decisions. If you’re done with “Is this it?” and ready to start your second act, come and explore more at www.onelifers.com

Some say we don’t take life over 50 seriously enough.And . . . what’s your point?To be honest, we haven’t even stared ye...
07/08/2026

Some say we don’t take life over 50 seriously enough.

And . . . what’s your point?

To be honest, we haven’t even stared yet.

Happy Friday folks, get out there this weekend, have an adventure, laugh your flip flops off, and give the middle digit to the dull life brigade.

Because it’s too damn short not to have fun.

Andy & Jules 😘

Would the younger me be proud?A worthy check-in question to ask ourselves from time to time -  would the me from ten or ...
17/07/2026

Would the younger me be proud?

A worthy check-in question to ask ourselves from time to time - would the me from ten or twenty years ago have wanted to be the me today?

If we find ourselves pausing on any part of that question, it’s worth leaning in to understand why.

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This came through on my email today, and it got me asking myself that question.

So, considering that we've been in Spain for nearly 6 years, I can safely say that, yes, my 10-year-younger self would have been happy with where I am today.

Twenty years is a different proposition...

It was around the time I was going through my mid-life crisis in Australia (but was it really a crisis?)

Back then, I'd lost my way a bit. I was at a crossroads, and really didn't know what to do with my life.

I knew I had to do something or else I was going to waste the years ahead.

And you know what? Being 50 seemed like a very long way off, but here we are.

The point is...

It doesn't matter when you stop and look at where you are now vs where you want to be.

You can be 40, 50, or even 70+; what matters is recognising that something has to change.

Since I hit 50, I've had the best years of my life. So many adventures, new experiences, new friends - these really are the best years, and with many more ahead.

So let's circle back to the top:

"Would the younger you be proud?"

Food for thought this weekend...

Andy 🙌

Just back from Carmona, and honestly, what a couple of days.We'd actually been before, four years ago, on our way back f...
16/07/2026

Just back from Carmona, and honestly, what a couple of days.

We'd actually been before, four years ago, on our way back from Cordoba. We only stopped for a night, but we splashed out and stayed in the parador, and it left a real mark on both of us.

The town is one of those places you leave promising yourself you'll come back to properly one day. So when we knew Jules was flying out of Seville today, we thought right, this is the moment. Let's go and dig a bit deeper, get under the surface of it, and see what we missed the first time.

This time we stayed at the Alcázar de la Reina instead of the parador. It's a beautiful old place right in the heart of the town, and it gave us a completely different feel of Carmona.

For anyone who hasn't come across Carmona, it's a small hilltop town about twenty minutes from Seville airport, and only ninety minutes up the road from home.

Which is one of the things I keep coming back to when I think about the life we've built here. We can just get in the car, drive up in the afternoon, and be somewhere completely different by the evening. No planes, no planning, no big production.

The town itself is something else...

You walk in through a gate the Romans actually built over two thousand years ago, still standing there like it's the most normal thing in the world, and then the whole old quarter opens up in front of you.

Whitewashed walls, cobbled streets, orange trees everywhere. The parador sits up at the top in what used to be a Moorish fortress, and the views across the Andalusian plain from up there genuinely stop you talking for a minute.

And I have to mention the food because it really is tremendous, and I don't use that word lightly.

We ate our way through some proper local places, and every single meal was better than the last.

Jules and I sat there looking at each other, going, "How is this actually our life?" Which is really the point of this post, I suppose.

Six years ago something like this would have been the holiday of the year. Weeks of planning and a day and a half to get here.

Now it's just what we do on a Tuesday because Jules needs to get to the airport.

And every so often we stop and actually notice that, because it's easy to let it become normal and forget how much work went into making it possible.

If you're ever flying in or out of Seville with a bit of time either side, do yourself a favour and stop in Carmona for a night.

Stay somewhere in the old town, wander the cobbles, eat everything, and let the place work its magic on you. You'll thank me for it.

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Places we stayed:
🏨 Parador de Carmona
🏨 Alcázar de la Reina

Where we ate (almost everywhere ;)
🍽️ Bar Goya - look for the Duck Tapa
🍽️ Bodega José María - Cod & Prawns + Octopus
🍽️ Castaño Vinos y Tapas Carmona - Pork

Drink with a view:
🍷 Restaurante Molino de la Romera

That airport feeling...The one where the holiday is over, bags packed, flip flops exchanged for something more sensible,...
16/07/2026

That airport feeling...

The one where the holiday is over, bags packed, flip flops exchanged for something more sensible, standing at the departures board checking your flight time and feeling that quiet dread creeping in.

Back to reality. Back to the routine. Back to the same old same old.

I know that feeling very well. I lived it for years.

The dread of going back to work, back to the desk, back to the Monday morning that was already ruining my Sunday night.

I'm sitting at Seville Airport right now, looking at that departures board, and I don't feel any of that.

Because I'm not going home. I'm going to visit.

Jersey is where I was born, where my family and most of my friends are, and I honestly can't wait to see them all.

But Spain is where Andy and I have built our second chapter, our business, and our life.

The place I'll be thinking about while I'm away and already looking forward to coming back to.

Six years ago I'd be sitting at the gate waiting for the flight home and already booking my next holiday, because that's how I survived.

Living for the weekends and the next escape.

Funny how things change.

Phrase of the day: “¿Lo de siempre?”It’s not what you might think if you try to translate it literally.What it actually ...
02/07/2026

Phrase of the day: “¿Lo de siempre?”

It’s not what you might think if you try to translate it literally.

What it actually means is, “The usual?”

It’s the phrase a bartender or waiter uses when they already know your regular order.

You walk in, they catch your eye, and they just say “¿Lo de siempre?” before you’ve said a word.

Good to know . . . unless of course it’s the ‘usual’ humdrum life they’re talking about.

But no chance of that around here. Us ONE LIFERS don’t do humdrum, right?

PS: if you’ve never tried a chilled Brandy, you’re missing a trick. See you down here for one…

Salud! 😘

Playing Hooky . . . because we can.5 years married, and the experiences keep getting better.Just because you're over 50,...
02/07/2026

Playing Hooky . . . because we can.

5 years married, and the experiences keep getting better.

Just because you're over 50, doesn't mean the fun has to stop. In fact, when you embrace that your best days are still to come, the whole world opens up for you.

To celebrate, we went to Bodegas Fundador for a fantastic tour, brandy tasting, and superb lunch at Casa Fundador (a must when you're here for a ONE LIFE Reboot with us in Jerez ;)

Have a great day, folks ❤️

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