04/05/2026
๐ง๐ต๐ฒ ๐บ๐ถ๐๐๐ฎ๐ธ๐ฒ ๐ ๐บ๐ฎ๐ฑ๐ฒ ๐ณ๐ผ๐ฟ ๐๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐: ๐ฏ๐ฒ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ฎ๐น๐๐ฎ๐๐ ๐ฎ๐๐ฎ๐ถ๐น๐ฎ๐ฏ๐น๐ฒ.
When you're the person everyone turns to, it feels like responsibility. A call from a board member on a Sunday? You pick up. A message from a team member at 9pm? You reply.
You tell yourself it's leadership. It isn't.
๐๐'๐ ๐ฎ ๐ฏ๐ผ๐๐ป๐ฑ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ผ๐ฏ๐น๐ฒ๐บ ๐ฑ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐๐๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐๐ฝ ๐ฎ๐ ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ฑ๐ถ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐๐ถ๐ผ๐ป.
Then comes the burnout. It creeps in quietly as irritability, as restlessness, as a hollow feeling at the end of days that should have felt full. My team felt it before I admitted it to myself.
๐ฆ๐ผ ๐ ๐๐๐ฎ๐ฟ๐๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐๐บ๐ฎ๐น๐น ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐ฐ๐ต๐ฎ๐ป๐ด๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐๐๐ผ ๐๐ต๐ถ๐ป๐ด๐:
โณ I told my team, "Unless it's life or death, it can wait. And if you think you can handle it, you probably can. I trust you."
โณ Then I proved I meant it. I stopped texting them on their days off. New ideas get written down and brought to the next meeting.
๐ ๐ผ๐๐ ๐ถ๐บ๐ฝ๐ผ๐ฟ๐๐ฎ๐ป๐๐น๐, ๐๐ผ๐ ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ป'๐ ๐๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ต ๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ผ๐ฝ๐น๐ฒ ๐๐ผ ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ฐ๐ ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐๐ถ๐บ๐ฒ ๐ถ๐ณ ๐๐ผ๐ ๐ฑ๐ผ๐ป'๐ ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ฐ๐ ๐ถ๐ ๐ณ๐ถ๐ฟ๐๐.
So every weekend, I put my phone away. I choose the stillness, the people I love, and the rare discipline of doing nothing, a space just for myself.
If you're someone who finds it hard to switch off, this one's for you.
You're allowed to rest. Even if people still need you. Even if the to-do list isn't finished.
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