05/03/2024
The way we see the world is a choice...
Whether we choose to always complain about how others behave or how cruel the world is, we are disempowering ourself and giving someone else, or something else all the power; we are CHOOSING to cast ourself in the role of the powerless victim who just has to passively suffer the wrongdoings of others!
What others say, do, or think, is not within our circle of control. By focusing our thoughts and energy on these things, we are disempowering ourself and empowering them. We are saying that they have all the power while we have none!
Is that who you want to be? Are you OK with being a passive bystander in your own life? Are you satisfied by simply being acknowledged as a victim in the story of your life?
If you answered NO to any of the above questions, then forget about guessing, speculating and interpreting why other people are saying or doing what they are saying or doing; just put your energy in your circle of control, learn your lessons and move on.
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