Small Talk Nursery School

Our wonderful founder Jo Cassidy making us proud to be part of the Small Talk family 💕💕

We’re looking for someone who:
✨ Loves working with young children
✨ Understands child-led, play-based learning
✨ Brings warmth, professionalism, and creativity
✨ Values teamwork and continuous growth

This week we are thinking about sharing stories! 2026 is the National Year of Reading and this Thursday is World Book Day!

It sounds dramatic, but it's the plain & simple truth. PLEASE READ.

When we talk about the challenges we are seeing in early childhood, delays, sensory seeking or sensory avoidance, difficulty cooperating, regulation struggles, trouble following directions, weak frustration tolerance, limited focus, difficulty initiating and sustaining play, we have to be honest about what has changed.

Children are not playing the way they once did. Not in the volume, the depth, or the intensity their developing brains and bodies require.

In infancy, movement is increasingly contained. Walkers, bouncers, seats, swings, activity centers. A baby who should be rolling, pivoting, pushing, crawling, and coordinating both sides of the body is often propped and positioned. Those early months are when the sensory systems are wiring rapidly. The vestibular system, which supports balance and spatial orientation. The proprioceptive system, which gives the brain information about joint position, force, and body awareness. The tactile system, which shapes body boundaries and emotional security. These systems build the foundation for regulation, attention, motor planning, and executive function. When whole body movement is limited, that foundation is weaker.

Then toddlerhood arrives, and we increase expectations for sitting, waiting, table tasks, prolonged circle time. When toddlers do run, climb, or explore, they are often met with constant correction. Be careful. Too high. Not like that. You will fall. Go play over there. Use it this way. The child who has already had limited sensory freedom now has limited autonomy. Instead of expansive movement and experimentation, they receive redirection and containment.

By preschool, the expectations intensify. More structured days. More controlled behavior. Often more extracurriculars layered on top of already full schedules. All of this unfolds alongside a significant rise in screen exposure, which again keeps the body still and quiet while reducing real world sensory input.

We have slowly and systematically reduced authentic play. And whatever remains, we tend to manage and direct.

Children need to run, climb, jump, swing, roll, carry, push, pull, fall, and get back up. These experiences stimulate the brainstem and cerebellum, which are critical for balance, coordination, and automaticity. They strengthen neural pathways that later support focus, working memory, impulse control, and academic learning. Physical play is not separate from cognition. It is a prerequisite.

But children also need creative autonomy. They need to invent storylines, negotiate roles, build structures, solve problems that do not have predetermined answers, tolerate frustration, and try again. When adults constantly hover, correct, or script the experience, it may look like play, but it functions more like a controlled activity. True play requires ownership.

Extracurriculars have a place when children are developmentally ready and genuinely interested. But they cannot replace daily unstructured time. A child’s day is already heavily organized. Without protected space for free, child led exploration, there is almost no opportunity for the kind of deep play that wires flexibility, resilience, and independent thinking.

Across intelligent species, play is a biological drive. Rough and tumble play calibrates force and builds social awareness. Risky outdoor play strengthens motor planning and emotional regulation. Highly sensory play integrates the nervous system. These experiences refine the connections between lower brain structures and the prefrontal cortex, the area responsible for reasoning, decision making, and self control.

We have taken over childhood in ways that feel productive and protective, often with the best of intentions. But intention does not erase impact. When expectations do not align with development, children are labeled, shamed, diagnosed, and sometimes medicated for behaviors that are, in many cases, adaptive responses to environments that do not meet their biological needs.

Of course some children require intervention and targeted support. That is real. But there are also many preventable circumstances rooted in environment, not pathology.

If we do not speak to this with urgency, the cycle will continue. Play in early childhood cannot simply be valued in theory. It must be fiercely protected in practice.

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I challenge all services in 2026 to deeply reflect on their use of children’s identifiable images particularly in group documentation and on centre based social media accounts.

One of the most common arguments we hear is “But parents will be upset.”

Our response? Let them be upset.

(Note: We don't want to intentionally upset families, but it is okay for people to be upset sometimes when it comes to difficult decisions. Child Protection is a place where it must come first before families desires
or wants.. Sit with them in this emotion. Listen to them and let them know "It it okay to be upset over this new decision. This is why we decided....." or "I can see you're upset. This is why we made this choice......" There are times in ECE where difficult decisions must be made and that will upset some people)

Our responsibility is first and foremost to children. Upholding children’s rights to digital safety is non-negotiable, even if it means a few difficult conversations. We must hold consistently high standards for child protection and in today’s world, that includes carefully safeguarding every child’s digital footprint.

So how do we document learning without using identifiable images? It’s simple
- Capture hands, feet, shadows, and the process of play.
- Photograph the materials, the environment, the experience, the learning, not the faces.
- Or, better yet, step away from the camera altogether.

We need to shift the narrative that every learning moment must be accompanied by a photo. With the rise of online apps, families became used to constant digital updates and endless photo streams but convenience cannot outweigh ethics. Documentation should be meaningful, purposeful, and respectful, not a daily photo album.

As we always say here at Insightful Learning and Education it starts with education.

Educate your families about why you are choosing to use non-identifiable images in group documentation. Share the research, the data, and the very real risks associated with children’s digital exposure. When families understand the “why,” they are far more likely to support the “how.”

Let 2026 be the year we lead with integrity, advocate for children’s rights, and redefine what respectful, ethical documentation truly looks like.

Edit: Free PDF booklet available 'Reducing Children’s Digital Footprint'
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