Shoot For The Stars

09/10/2022

Amor Fati - to love fate

“Life is q***r with its twists and turns.

As everyone of us sometimes learns.”

“Dont quit” by edgar albert guest, 

To me its a fact, life is chaotic, it most likely will not go exactly as you wanted it to, and in some cases it throws you an upper cut straight to your jaw, those punches can be hard to regain your composure from, to stand up again just as another punch will come, you can go on the defensive to keep your guard up and lock yourself down, push away the world, build a wall between you and the world, but when you build a wall to keep the bad guys out, guess who also is gonna be kept away, the good guys, you can go on the offensive, throw punches left and right, try to over power anything and anyone who comes at you, here again we come into trouble because there's only a limited time you can do that before getting tired.

BUT WHAT CAN I THEN DO!

Amor fati- to love fate

You don't have to love the situation, or the terrible thing that have happened to you, but it happened and that can't be undone, instead focus on what you can control, your reaction, your intentions, who your gonna become now this have happened, it has the potential to build you into a better, wise, stronger, more loving person, no matter how dark, depressing, despairing, use it as kindle wood on a fire, as Macus Aurelius said: 

“A blazing fire makes flame and brightness out of everything that is thrown into it”

So shine bright and shoot for the stars cause there's no reason not to.









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29/12/2021

25/11/2021

While we are charging towards the things we want, it can be hard to remember to see how far we have come, and it's important to see how much you have done and grown, to boost your resolve, and to feel proud of your accomplishments.

So name three things you have accomplished

I have:

Released a video game.

Written nearly 100 post on instagram

had up till now, one coaching client

How about you ?

20/11/2021

Remember in all the craziness you are going through, find time to self care, if that means alone time do that if it's being with others do that, if you dont take care of yourself then you'll damage your greatest asset and you will at some point burnout and you slowly lose your vision.

This weekend my self care is me and two friends are gonna get together all weekend and geek out on the new pokemon game, which we are so excited about and can't wait.

i see this as a big self care thing but the small things is important too

Take a bath.
Drink some cocco
Hug your partner, friend or family
Lay back with a game or a book

Have a lovely weekend

18/11/2021

In one year there is 365 days and far too few of them is ideal/perfect, now i'm not saying that there can´t be bad days or bad times, but that shouldn't be the majority, we have the power to design our day, find elements we love and then add them to our days, so little by little the majority of days is or comes close to a perfect day.

One version of My “Perfect” day consist of in the morning waking up early and do my morning routine:

Wake up
go for a run
then a bath
breakfast while watching either some coaching, jazza or an episode of netflix

Then do some work around the house, then work on my side hustle, and in the evening talk to or be with friends and then a slow afternoon before bedtime.

Its not a complex day, and I can choose to add these compounds into my day and so can you.

So how would your day unfold?

15/11/2021

I believe that one key thing in life, that leads you to your dream life is intention, when i look back in ancient history, there's a lot of talk about honor, to live with purpose, and to have a good life is to live in accordance with you nature, which Marcus loved to say, so in my mind i have taken all this and de-stilted it down to “live a life with intention” it may be a simplified statement with a lot of holes, but i believe one step to begin living and being the best you, is to have intention and live those intentions.

One way i'm attempting to do this is a model which i call “Me in 10 years”, which as the name implies is about imagining a better version of you, which you do by, answering questions, and making choices, and the last ingredient is Action, you can have the best plan in the world but with no action as Brendon Burchard has said “ i Rather be a bumbling mess of bold action than a well planned coward”

08/10/2021

Jeg håber at denne besked resoner med nogle af jer.
Jeg går gennem en svær periode, hvilket we en af grundene til at jeg ikke har vært aktiv I de sidste 3 uger

14/09/2021

Don't wait for the hero to save you...

06/09/2021

Hvad havde I brug for at høre for 10år siden, de ting har en anden med høj sandsylighed også brug for at høre.

30/08/2021

A "simple" invitation

" Would you like to eat with us tonight?" for some of you this might seem like a small message from a friend, and you might think to make a post about it is stupid or irrelevant, but for me this message has a lot of weight behind it, it's a message that means a lot to me, I wouldn't have gotten this message just a month ago, I believe this message happened because of two thing:

I practice what I preach
Because of stuff from my past, I lost two amazing friends who I thought I would never see again, but I did the hard and scary thing, I wrote a message to them both, and that message changed my life

Peoples heart
It wasn't only me who made it possible, my friends could have said no or ignored the message, but somehow that didn't happen, they somehow said "let's meet up" and it still bugles me to this day, that they let me in with such ease.

That's why this message could even happen and I still feel like I've only scratched the surface of my feelings but the message I want you to take away is:

The small things you do, or do not do, for your friends or even a stranger, can literally change their life, so find excuse to do "small" things for people and see what happens

18/08/2021

Why does everything annoy me?

How come nothing is happening with what i have created?

Why does it all just feel in vain?

Most likely you have faced these questions, you have had days where it feels like everything is falling apart, i recently had one, and it was hard, the worst part for me, i couldt focus, which just made it worse because i wanted to create, but couldn't.

Now these days will come but what's important is not to lose yourself and the day because of it, this is my (In progress) three step process, the first thing to do is:

To remind yourself:
“This too shall pass” or “i am paying my dues”
This is the first thing I do, and do it repeatedly.

Second:
Now this step I combine with some motivational talks or self development videos, i will remove myself from what I was doing, and do something completely different, that day I chose to learn about organizing my home and cleaning, after the videos I began to organize and clean, while listening to either talks or self development.

And it helped me clear my head, I became less irritable and in the end more productive.

Now the third step is:
To reflect on what troubled you and look at it with a critical eye instead of emotional, and see what you can dissect.

This is my process and it really (For me) helps.

I hope this will help you, and as always shoot for the stars cause there's no reason not to.

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