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AS YOU REVIEW YOUR 2024

Dear friend, you possibly have commenced reviewing of your 2024. The year, of course, is filled with many ups and downs. As you go on in the process of reviewing while looking forward to 2025....,I have one thing to tell you: Forget the past.
Three things you must forget in your past:
1. Forget your past successes: Thank God, dear sister for getting married in the year, congratulations for the new house, new job, new relationship, and the new car. Oh! Glory to God for the visa....but please forget all these and look forward to greater things

2. Forget your past Failures: I understand that you didn't plan it that way but it happened ..... yes, the heart break, the rejection at embassy, disappointment from your loved ones, loss of loved ones or properties, job loss, exam failure, business downturn etc. Let these be in your past and move on with new vision and vigour to the new year

3. Your past sins: One greatest disservice you can do to yourself is to allow you past misconducts to tie you down. Yes, you have aborted....., you were involved in unholy relationship, despite your desire to quit, you still.found yourself in extra- marital affairs, my dear sister....free yourself from the quit and let them be in your past.

Why?
(a) No one keeps looking back and gets to destination (otherwise, accidents are non-negotiable)
(b) Remembering the past will hinder you from seeing the possibilities and opportunities in the new year
(c) God wants to do much more better thing for you in the year to come than what he has done for you -all put together in the this year.
(d) Mercies of God are new everyday....even if you have committed the greatest sin, new mercy will find you.
(e) Dwelling in the past is tantamount to using an outdated curriculum.

The only thing you need to do is to learn from your past and then move on. There is always a lesson to learn, positive or negative that will resharpen how you handle your new year. Pick the lesson and focus on what lies ahead for better relationship, better life, better job, better opportunities, better marital partner than the one that broke your heart this year and stronger relationship with God.
That wedding will happen, your children will come, your job is around the corner, that visa application will be approved, and ultimately that testimony will come.

Focus on God and walk with him

Let me conclude by this piece of Prof. Greg Erhabor....." Out of the broken piece of your past, God can build edifice of hope"

KEEP ON KEEPING ON

I have learnt that success in life is not customized for some people but generously available for everyone who confront life despite the obvious challenges. It is not enough to dream but also to be courageous. The death of your dreams will not be accomplished by a major failure but its death will come from indifference and apathy. The best way to go after a failure is to learn the lesson and forget the details.
Failure can become a weight or can give you wings to fly, it depends on how courageous you are. Ninety-nine percent of success is built on past failures. Lies in every failure is the secret of success.
Never let any challenge weigh you down. It is when things seem worse that you must not quit.... You know why? Your days of celebration are around the corner.

SEE YOU AT THE TOP SOON

SIX HABITS OF UNSUCCESSFUL PEOPLE

Success means different things to different people. But regardless of your definition, some habits are capable of sabotaging your chances of achieving your goals.

1. PROCASTINATION
One of the greatest obstacles to achieving that goal is the inability to take the first step. In most cases, this is supported by the feelings of still having too much time ahead to complete the task. I have discovered as a University lecturer that giving students assignment to be submitted as long as two weeks may not be beneficial to the students as many will not think of working on the assignment until a day before submission. How often do you procrastinate?

2. LACK OF PLANNING
While successful peole start their day with a pre-planned agenda, unsuccessful people always begin their day without a clear plan. They attempt each task as it comes and then hope for the best. This act brings.them into a phase of imagination and fantasy without any action that will bring their dreams to reality.

3. OVER-SLEEPING
Successful people are so disciplined that they know when to sleep and when to wake up. On the other hand, unsuccessful people sleep and wake up anytime (unplanned life).
If you sleep 8hours everyday consistently for 24 years, it means you have used one-third of your age (at 24) to sleep.
As a matter of facts, your success in life is a function of how much self-control you have on sleeping, s*x and even eating habits.

4. NEGATIVITY
One of the most dangerous thing in life is to be surrounded with negative people. They can give countless excuses and reasons a task cannot be achieved but have no single idea of what other thing can be done. If you have such as friends, it would take a miracle to be successful.

5. ADDICTION TO PHONE/SOCIAL MEDIA
Do you find it too easy to jump on your phone a minute you wake up trying to catch up with social media update, news, emails etc even before you put your feet on the ground. Unsuccessful people have short attention span and can therefore be distracted and one way to be distracted with ease is to go on social media. There are two set of people: those who make news and those who read the news. This defines successful and unsuccessful people.

6. ATTACHMENT TO THE PAST.

While successful people move on from their past success or failure. Unsuccessful people, will always dwell on the failure or little breakthrough of the past. This hinders the achievement of new goals.
For better results this year friend, move away from your past successor failure

Conclusively, your ability to watch out for these symptoms and avoid them will determine how much you will achieve is year.

Have you started that writing? What about that application?
Have you made the call or you are pushing it ahead?.
What's your mindset about that proposal?
2024 remains 11 months, 11 days.

With self-discipline and prayer, you can make this year a great one.

SEE YOU AT THE TOP SOON

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CHARACTER
Your character defines your personality. It determines a lot about you. Good character brings is a magnet that brings fortunes.
Bad Character stagnates you until you realize the need for change. Many 'pray and fast' for a suitor but bad character makes them unmarriageable. Several guys have lost their potential benefactors due to lack of self-control and constat display of ill-mannerism. Others have lost big contracts because of hot-temper.
Nothing repels people from you more than bad character. Yes, your beauty may attract a good man to you but your good character would retain him. It occurred to me that many of the issues in certain people's life are traceable to their poisonous behaviours. Such people become liabilities to their employers, problematic to pastors/Imams and headaches to the communities.
Dear friend, my advice for you is that DON'T ONLY PRAY FOR DESTINY HELPER BUT ALSO PREPARE AND PRESENT YOURSELF AS SOMEONE THAT IS WORTHY OF BEING HELPED BY HAVING A RIGHT AND POSITIVE CHARACTER.

SEE YOU AT THE TOP SOONEST

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Never wait for man's commendation to rate your life. Don't let the quality of your life be determined by the rating of others. Never be men PLEASER, men can never be pleased, no matter how hard you try
You know why? When you do GOOD, nobody REMEMBERS but when you do BAD, nobody FORGETS.
Just live your life to please your GOD who is your CREATOR because only him you'll give account to.

As for men, just put them where they belong.

SEE YOU AT THE TOP SOONEST

We live in a generation where young minds love results more than the process. Majority wants to live big without passing through the processes that lead to better life. They covet the anointing of Baba Adeboye, Oyedepo etc, but forget to covet the spiritual disciplines they went through. They are eager to desire to tap into the 'grace' of OTEDOLA but are all bunch of lazy soul. This explains why many become victims of scammersand quick-money 'evangelists'. Until you learn and ready to follow the principle of how life is built, you shall continue to shout the loudest AMEN to every prosperity prayer without anything to SHOW.

May we get understanding to do the right thing at the right time.

SEE YOU AT THE TOP SOONEST

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In this current dispensation, excuses are not allowed. Yes, the challenges may be conspicuous but not strong enough to prevent you from achieving those goals. Behind those challenges lies your strength, ingenuity, skills and ultimately, your success stories. Breaking through barriers is called BREAKTHROUGH and it only happens for those who are dogged, resilient and tenacious.
Never allow your challenges to stagnate you. No successful person without challenges.

All I know is that very soon, if you don't give up IT WILL END IN PRAISE

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When you make progress in life, don't despise others who seem to get stuck. The race is not for the swift. When it appears your life train is moving slowly or not moving at all, never compare yourself whose time has come.
Life syllabus differs from persons to person and thus our question papers are not the same. We may be writing the same exams but question papers are different.

Our timings are also different. Celebrate whose time has come and be encouraged by their stories while waiting for yours.

Stop comparing your wife with your friend's.
Never put pressure on your husband to buy you car, just because your friend's husband has done the same. Avoid family comparison. Don't be intimidated by the success of others. Your Great days of Testimonies are around the corners.

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When you make progress in life, don't despise others who seem to get stuck. The race is not for the swift. When it appears your life train is moving slowly or not moving at all, never compare yourself whose time has come.
Life syllabus differs from persons to person and thus our question papers are not the same. We may be writing the same exams but question papers are different.

Our timings are also different. Celebrate whose time has come and be encouraged by their stories while waiting for yours.

Stop comparing your wife with your friend's.
Never put pressure on your husband to buy you car, just because your friend's husband has done the same. Avoid family comparison. Don't be intimidated by the success of others. Your Great days of Testimonies are around the corners.

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