07/04/2022
Here is our 1st love letter to you after our wedding weekend, which was full of magic and love.
✨We said YES to each other
✨We said YES to celebrating our Love
✨We said YES to committing to each other again and again
✨We said YES to a full weekend of sacred union rituals while weaving in inspirations from nature, the 5 elements, ta**ra, heart opening breast massages, hand fasting rituals, pleasure magic, play parties, cacao ceremonies and sound journeys
✨We said YES to making love to our love and being witnessed in that
✨We said YES to sharing our dreams and visions and how we want our relationship to impact the people around us
✨We said YES to singing and dancing through life
✨We said YES to all parts of who we are no matter how dark or how light they are
✨We said YES to sharing this wedding weekend with dear friends and celebrating their love and their relationship just as much as ours
✨We said YES to covering our entire home in golden confetti as a symbol of all the magic that is all around us
✨We said YES to supporting one another and letting each other shine in all areas of love & life … including family, work, sexuality, friendships, brotherhood & sisterhood, finances, day-to-day magic, spirituality, creativity and time and love for ourselves
✨We said YES to revisiting our love declaration every 6-12 months and getting married again and again …. No matter how small or big the love rituals might be, because we know that our desires, needs, boundaries and fears constantly change and we want our relationship to stay authentic and alive
✨We said YES to prioritising us and our love even when it is uncomfortable and vulnerable at times
✨We said YES to being husband and wife in an open marriage
With love, Janie & Fredrik ❤
Ps.: We are totally aware that the word *wedding* or *marriage* for most people around us means something very concrete and possibly very different to our version. We respect you and honour your love & relationship just as much as ours and we are inviting you to celebrate our unique definition of these 2 words with the intention of embodying the possibility to create your very own version around weddings and marriages if the standard one doesn’t quite fit for you.
Ps.: We are sending extra ❤ to all our dear friends (who were present and who were not present), who believed in us, who cheered us on and celebrated us and who blessed us with soooo much love. Thank you for adding so much magic to our wedding ritual and making our dreams come true