13/10/2026
Both babies are being fed. Only one is learning to eat.
Up top, watch the head tip back and the chin lift. That small movement lets gravity do the work, so the lips, tongue and jaw switch off. It looks like eating, but no skill is being built. In feeding therapy that head tilt is a red flag, not a milestone.
In the bottom clip the head stays level and the spoon waits. The baby leans in, the top lip draws the food off, the tongue carries it back, the jaw holds steady. Lip seal, tongue control, jaw stability. The real work of eating, happening in real time, and the neutral head keeps the swallow safe while it does.
Here’s what no one tells you. Most parents, and plenty of professionals, can’t spot the difference. So if this is new to you, you haven’t got anything wrong. You just hadn’t been shown where to look.
This week, watch how your baby eats, not only how much. Then tell me what you saw.