09/01/2026
Some books inform our clinical work. Others shift the way we understand healing. Sebern Fisher’s The Hidden Book of First Things has done that for me.
I came to this book as a psychotherapist who integrates trauma-focused psychotherapy, neurofeedback (NFB) and Deep Brain Reorienting (DBR), and also as someone with my own history of developmental trauma.
Fisher does not focus extensively on the details of what happened to her. Instead, she gives us something perhaps more powerful: the aftermath and the absence. She explores what happens when the relational experiences that ordinarily help a child develop an interior sense of self and other are missing. Developmental trauma is not only about what happened to us. It can also be about what did not happen for us the attunement, safety, co-regulation and reliable relational connection through which the developing brain learns over time. These are not always memories waiting to be processed. Sometimes they are experiences that never occurred sufficiently in the first place.
This is where Fisher’s journey with neurofeedback is particularly compelling. NFB offers another doorway into healing by working with the brain’s capacity for regulation rather than relying solely on insight or narrative.
Her later and current experience with Dr. Frank Corrigan’s DBR adds another layer, offering a way of working with deeply held orienting and shock responses associated with trauma.
As a therapist integrating NFB, DBR and trauma-focused psychotherapy, I increasingly appreciate that these approaches can reach different layers of developmental injury: the brain, the body, the relational experience and the emerging sense of self.
Fisher’s book left me thinking about what becomes possible when the brain, body and self are finally given new experiences from which to learn?
For me, both personally and professionally, this is a powerful and hopeful exploration of what it means not simply to survive developmental trauma, but to discover what can emerge beyond it.