02/03/2026
Dear White Women, Clean Up Your Own Mess
This letter isn't for "Every white woman who ever existed," It's for those who directly and ignorantly benefit from the white supremacist based colonial system that is destroying millions of lives a day. If this offends you, please ask yourself why before you come at me with "But not me," comments....
Dear White Women, Clean Up Your Own Mess
This letter isn’t for “Every white woman who ever existed,” It’s for those who directly and ignorantly benefit from the white supremacist based colonial system that is destr…
01/31/2026
January Artist Feature: fae swinamer
This year I am highlighting 12 Canadian artists from around the country who are making their own dreams come true. The first artist is fae swinamer, a Two-Spirit Artist out of NB, by way of Nova Scotia. Please come check out her/his profile and show some support for fae swinamer!!!!!...
January Artist Feature: fae swinamer
This year I am highlighting 12 Canadian artists from around the country who are making their own dreams come true. The first artist is fae swinamer, a Two-Spirit Artist out of NB, by way of Nova Sc…
01/30/2026
There Is So Much Work to Do…
Random update about my thoughts right now. Read at your own risk (ha ha), also TRIGGER WARNING VIOLENT CSA, so please read with caution....
There Is So Much Work to Do…
Random update about my thoughts right now. Read at your own risk (ha ha), also TRIGGER WARNING VIOLENT CSA, so please read with caution.
01/29/2026
The “Mental Health” Digital Archive Is Both Massive And Vast
Just some thoughts on why so many of us struggle with and (ing), maybe leave a comment if you agree?...
The “Mental Health” Digital Archive Is Both Massive And Vast
Just some thoughts on why so many of us struggle with and (ing), maybe leave a comment if you agree?
01/28/2026
Ugly Food Diaries Ugly Delicious Food For Fat Girls
Skip to Recipe So one of the things I *love* doing for myself is cooking. I absolutely believe that food is my love language. If I cook for you, it means to me you are family and that by giving you food, I am nourishing both your stomach and your heart. At least, that is my intent. So, to that end, I made something this week, and I decided that I want to continue to share my food with the world....
Ugly Food Diaries Ugly Delicious Food For Fat Girls
Skip to Recipe So one of the things I *love* doing for myself is cooking. I absolutely believe that food is my love language. If I cook for you, it means to me you are family and that by giving you…
01/24/2026
Navigating Mental Health: Why Cannabis Works for Me
Hey , do you agree that helps with your , among other issues you deal with? I wrote a short rant about how cannabis helps me, I'd love if you'd give it a read....
Navigating Mental Health: Why Cannabis Works for Me
Hey , do you agree that helps with your , among other issues you deal with? I wrote a short rant about how cannabis helps me, I’d love if you’d give it a …
01/21/2026
I ♥ Loud Girls
I love loud girls. I can't stand when girls are quiet, shy, and inhibited by what they think society wants from them. I grew up like that, constantly wondering who I was supposed to be, instead of knowing who I wanted to be. Until fifteen years ago, it didn't actually occur to me to look in the mirror and ask myself who I wanted to be....
I ♥ Loud Girls
I love loud girls. I can’t stand when girls are quiet, shy, and inhibited by what they think society wants from them. I grew up like that, constantly wondering who I was supposed to be, inste…
01/19/2026
“What Did I Do?” Even Traveling Isn’t Safe in BC
Trigger warning, this post contains conversations of trauma, abuse, healing, and white supremacy....
“What Did I Do?” Even Traveling Isn’t Safe in BC
Trigger warning, this post contains conversations of trauma, abuse, healing, and white supremacy.
01/18/2026
Hi Friends,
It's been nine years since we started this journey, and I haven't really been proactive about fostering this communit,y but I am going to be from here on out. I want to see your faces, know who you are, and what you want from me, so tell me, darlings, what are you looking for? -w-
01/14/2026
Mental Health Is a Baby Science: Patient’s Aren’t Crazy, You Just Don’t Want To Believe
I've said before that the term "Trauma-Informed" is an umbrella term that doesn't really explain what you are informed about. Lots of people say it, but then when you push and explain that you have been tortured, they don't fully grasp the idea, because most people living today have no concept of what the word "Torture" actually means. I mean, drugged for days on end, out of my mind, to the point that I was a willing participant in my rape,s not only because it was the only way to survive, but because, as I said, I was drugged out of my mind by grown-ass men who knew better....
Mental Health Is a Baby Science: Patient’s Aren’t Crazy, You Just Don’t Want To Believe
I’ve said before that the term “Trauma-Informed” is an umbrella term that doesn’t really explain what you are informed about. Lots of people say it, but then when you push a…