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El Apostol - Lesbian Dating & Relationship Coaching Here’s something that will be useful to you. Personalized Coaching: Tailored strategies to help you attract and sustain meaningful connections.

Relationship Guidance: Insights to strengthen existing relationships or navigate new ones.

What caught my attention this morning…Love triangles have been a staple part of narratives throughout storytelling histo...
08/15/2026

What caught my attention this morning…

Love triangles have been a staple part of narratives throughout storytelling history, but scientists now believe that this has influenced an entirely new sexuality.

A new study by researchers at Seattle University has identified that 'symbiosexual' people are attracted to the energy between established couples rather than between themselves and one other person, bringing a whole new meaning to the more, the merrier.
This type of sexuality is described as "attraction to the energy, multidimensionality, and power shared between people in relationships," as per a definition provided by the Archives of Sexual Behavior when discussing a previous 2023 study titled 'The Pleasure Study.'

The study, which surveyed 373 participants about aspects of their sexual and gender identity, also found that a large portion of participants in the study actually felt romantic and sexual attraction to the “synergy” of a third person being thrown into the mix."

08/15/2026

In a world where legal protections, societal attitudes, and political climates can shift overnight, economic leverage is non-negotiable.

You don't build wealth to flex, buy status symbols, or impress people who don't matter. You build cash flow, equity, and ownership so that:

You always have walking-away power. You’ll never be trapped in a bad job, a hostile living situation, or a toxic relationship because you can't afford to leave.

I’ll expand this in the comments… 👇

08/11/2026

Never lower your boundaries to keep someone interested. The right person will rise to meet you and not require you to shrink.

08/06/2026

Time moves whether you’re dating or waiting on the sidelines.

Stop holding out for "perfect timing," the mythical woman who checks 50 arbitrary boxes, or that magical day when you suddenly feel 100% ready.

Make the move, download the app, make eye contact across the room, and start building the love life you actually want.

07/21/2026

I’m going to say this with love: until she clearly tells you she likes you and wants a relationship with you, treat the sweetness as kindness.

Not interest.
Not potential.
Not a promise of what’s coming next.

Don’t build a future out of hints, favors, chemistry, attention, or mixed signals.

Build it out of clear words and consistent actions.

If someone wants to be with you, they can communicate that. Your job is not to analyze, interpret, or fill in the blanks.

You deserve clarity.

Stop investing in what might be and pay attention to what’s actually being offered.

07/17/2026

Date # 1

Drinks

That’s the date.

Not dinner. Not a three-hour commitment. Not an activity where you’re trapped together if the vibe is off.

Just drinks.

Goes well?

Then you earn the second date.

And that’s when you do dinner.

As a pragmatic le***an dating coach, I’ll say this all day long: the first date is for figuring out if you want a second date. The second date is for actually getting to know each other.

Stop treating Date # 1 like an anniversary celebration with someone you’ve never met.

Keep it simple, low-pressure, and easy for both of you to leave if there’s no chemistry.

Drinks first.

Dinner second.

Your calendar, energy, and sanity will thank you. 💁‍♀️🌈

What caught my attention…I saw someone on Twitter explain bisexuality in a way that’s always stuck with me: bisexuality ...
07/12/2026

What caught my attention…

I saw someone on Twitter explain bisexuality in a way that’s always stuck with me: bisexuality isn’t automatically a 50/50 split. For some people it’s 70% attraction to men and 30% to women. For others it’s 98% women and 2% men. If you’re genuinely attracted to more than one gender, bisexual is still a perfectly valid word for that.

I don’t think we need to keep inventing new labels for experiences that are already covered by an existing sexuality.

Sometimes it feels like we’re creating more confusion instead of more clarity.

From a dating coach perspective, what matters most is clarity. Dating apps are hard enough without people getting lost in increasingly convoluted descriptions of themselves.

The goal isn’t to build the most nuanced identity statement possible—it’s to communicate who you are, what you want, and who you want to date. Mental clarity helps you find your person. A convoluted self-image usually just creates confusion, both for you and for the people trying to connect with you.

Not every variation in attraction needs its own category.

Sometimes a word already does the job just fine.

Rooting for you,

EL

🚨 I Figured Out What's Wrong With Dating Over 40+ 🚨The problem isn't that there aren't amazing le***ans out there.We exi...
07/10/2026

🚨 I Figured Out What's Wrong With Dating Over 40+ 🚨

The problem isn't that there aren't amazing le***ans out there.

We exist. 😂 We've just reached an age where our tolerance for:

❌ Games
❌ Mixed signals
❌ Emotional chaos
❌ Inconsistency
❌ "I'm not ready for a relationship, but..." conversations..has dropped to absolute zero.

So instead of entertaining drama, we're at home.

Protecting our peace. Cuddling our dogs. Watching our shows. Reading our books. Working on ourselves.
And somehow, all the emotionally available, drama-free le***ans are sitting in their houses wondering where all the emotionally available, drama-free le***ans are. 🤦‍♀️🏳️‍🌈

Maybe the dating pool isn't broken.

Maybe we're all just home.

👇 If you're a single le***an over 40 who's become allergic to BS but still believes in love, drop a 💜 in the comments and tell us where you are hiding 😂✨

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🚨 What's Wrong With Dating Over 40+ has been decoded 🚨The problem isn't that there aren't amazing le***ans out there.We ...
07/05/2026

🚨 What's Wrong With Dating Over 40+ has been decoded 🚨

The problem isn't that there aren't amazing le***ans out there.

We exist. 😂

We've just reached an age where our tolerance for:
❌ Games
❌ Mixed signals
❌ Emotional roller coaster
❌ Inconsistency
❌ "I'm not ready for a relationship, but..." conversations..has dropped to absolute zero.

So instead of entertaining drama, we're at home.

Protecting our peace. Cuddling our dogs. Watching our shows. Reading our books. Working on ourselves.
And somehow, all the emotionally available, drama-free le***ans are sitting in their houses wondering where all the emotionally available, drama-free le***ans are. 🤦‍♀️🏳️‍🌈

Maybe the dating pool isn't broken. Maybe we're all just home.

👇 If you're a single le***an over 40 who's become allergic to BS but still believes in love, drop a 💜 in the comments and let's see how many of us are hiding in the house. 😂✨

02/17/2026

Only YOU can label yourself a victim.
You are not your race or Color.

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