02/26/2024
How to set boundaries as a freelance editor π
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Here's the thing...
When you tell fam and friends that you're freelance editing, it's only a matter of time before someone asks you to "take a peek" at their thesis/memoir/fan fiction/resume... π
And of course you can help out if you want to. But I have a pretty short list of people who I'll do free work for π€·ββοΈ
I also don't ENJOY those types of projects. My zone of genius is technical and academic editing. So it would be a chore...π©
And do I want to give Aunt Susan feedback on her memoir? Or call out my college friend for plagiarism? Absolutely effing not. Talk about awkward π³
So here's how I say no to family and friends without sounding like a jerk:
1οΈβ£ Set boundaries, gently:
Politely explain that while you'd love to help, you've already hit your limit for free work this month/year. Try: "I wish I could help but I already have some pro bono work on my plate right now." It's a gentle reminder that your time and expertise are worthy of a little cha-ching! πΈ
2οΈβ£ Offer alternatives:
Still want to be helpful? Recommend a friend! Try: "I'm sorry [essays/fiction/poetry/etc.] is not my area of expertise but if you like I can recommend another editor who is great at this. Just so you know, they have a price list for this type of work." Helpful and getting that referral fee - win win! π
3οΈβ£ Consider different compensation:
Does Aunt Susan have a writing group that she could recommend you to? Or maybe your pal is a website designer and can help you set up landing pages in exchange for your time. Think outside the box if you're ok with working with fam and friends π±
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