10/11/2021
Why is it so difficult to really experience joy?
Because we're always afraid it's going to end.
That something bad is going to happen to "make up for" the joy we're feeling.
That this good feeling will give way to those bad feelings.
So we walk around in a state of "foreboding joy," which means we never truly embrace joy when it shows up.
It's like giving a good friend a nod instead of a hug.
When we go through life suppressing the emotions we don't want to feel...
We reduce our capacity to experience the emotions we DO want to feel.
Read that again.
- Andy
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