10/30/2025
Halloween’s around the corner, and candy is top of mind for many parents & teachers. There are many different opinions and strategies for managing it, and you should always do what feels right for you.
Here are my thoughts:
🧑🏻Play the long game - think of your child as a “future adult” and consider how your strategy today will play out down the road. If you’re taking control of the candy and managing it for your child, how will they relate to this food when they’re out there on their own?
🎃 Fact: candy tastes good. Research shows that demonizing or restricting any food often results in children becoming more attracted and obsessed with that “forbidden fruit.” They can develop negative feelings about wanting or eating those foods. It’s perfectly fine to allow kids to express how much they like candy, and to say that you like it too.
🍭 Allowing kids to enjoy their stash and have their fill gives them the chance to relax and learn about how different foods make their body feel. If they get a stomach ache from eating too much candy, this will be part of the learning experience. It will help them learn to tune into their body’s internal cues.
🌈 Candy comes in different shapes, sizes, colours, textures and flavours. Invite kids to explore and experience it using all their senses, just like any other food.
🥦 Skip the nutrition lecture, but maintain structure around eating. I used to let my kids have free rein with their candy for a day or two, and then they could choose what they wanted as dessert with our regular meals and at snack time. Try this - you’ll find that the thrill wears off much sooner than you think!
⏰ Learning about food & eating is a process that takes time and patience, especially if this is different from your past experience. If adults normalize candy and allow kids to learn about self-regulation, the payoff down the road is a relaxed and positive relationship with food.
🎃 In the end, Halloween is a time for creating happy memories.
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🎃 Janet