05/09/2023
First off, let me start by saying I did not create this image. That being said, there’s many things I agree with in these words.
I am a foster, adoptive and biological mother. I work almost full-time and raise seven kids. I homeschool two of them and at least four of them have special needs. I get called a supermom all the time. (It drives me crazy though, but that’s another rant).
Where I disagree with this image is where it says they are all overwhelmed near the bottom. I don’t believe that all parents who get referred to as super mom or super dad, or super parent, are necessarily overwhelmed. But obviously many are.
And the bottom line is: WE CAN ALL USE HELP SOMETIMES
Asking for help is a skill that does not come naturally to me and I focus on almost every day. Most parents want to come across as competent, caring, and independent. But the reality is we need each other.
I’ve worked very hard over the past 18 years to build a village around me, whom I can trust to support me on my best days and on my worst days. It was not an easy process, but it was possible. I encourage all parents to do the same. Whether you have one grown child, part time custody of a child, or you’re raising money on your own. We all need a village.
-needsDad