06/11/2023
My heart goes out to Christian pastors. Some of you are continually putting out fires. Some of you are tempted by the women in your congregation. Some of you have a strong addiction to po*******hy. Some of you are frustrated because you want to see your people make better choices, but how to do that with and for them eludes you. What if I told you that the bigger your congregation the harder it will be for you to help anyone? You see, a big church was never God's plan for anyone. What your Father in Heaven wants for you is to find a vocation where you have time for your immediate family, be in a vocation where you're not settling disputes between church goers who hold grudges, be in a vocation where you enjoy seven days out of the week. God never planned for you to answer any "call" from Him. His only "call" on your life is to be his friend, and let him be a parent to you.
Man's system of religion, unfortunately, will never bring you an abundance of peace, joy and harmony in your life. Not only are you destroying your marriage by lusting after women on a computer screen, or in your congregation, you are destroying your congregants lives when you lay hands on them and pray for the very things you are dealing with. It's empty pastor. You deserve to be happy, but Christian ministry will not make you happy. It was never set up to bring emotional healing to you, your family, or your congregants.
Meeting for an hour a week in a building accomplishes nothing in the lives in anyone. People, today, are broken emotionally, mentally, spiritually, physically, financially, and even sexually. It takes someone with much more than a ministry diploma to help them. It's one on one, not 600 to one, 500 to one, 400, or even 100 to one. Your opinion about God’s word that you speak on Sunday morning does little or nothing to change the lives of your congregants.
"So, what do I do?" You may ask.
1. Give up your ministry before it destroys your life.
2. Look for a vocation that makes you truly happy. It might be sales, working with your hands, a business, pray to your Father, and He will show you.
3. When you quit ministry, start spending quality time with your family, your wife and children, and your pets. They need your time and love, not to be preached at.
4. Cultivate a relationship with your Father in Heaven, and allow Him to heal your childhood trauma, and make you into the man He wants you to be. A good man that pleases Him. This will NOT happen as long as you are in a ministry.
5. Have fun, yes fun. P**n, lust, bickering and the like are not fun. Give your life to God, not the ministry, and he will reward you.