04/19/2022
I have mixed feelings about turning 30 today
I’m simultaneously ready to say goodbye to my 20’s while (at times 😉) resistant to say hello to my 30’s
The universe leaves me no choice though 🙄😝
In all seriousness, any reservation that I have about turning 30 is wrapped up in a “should” statement. And, simply being aware of that makes it easy to override
My sub 20 years were filled with LOADS of fun, sports, time outdoors, and tons of time with loved ones
My 20’s were filled with a LOT of grinding, ultimately leaving less time for everything else
Much of this grinding was fuelled by those “should” statements which are ultimately previously subconscious beliefs:
“I should be working 14hr days in construction so I can pay to go to University”
“I should be studying my butt off in Kinesiology to get into physio school”
“I should be studying FOR physio school + licensing exams”
“I should STILL be studying because I want to set my clients up for success”
“I should be working right now” (classic self-employed thought trap)
etc…
Don’t get me wrong. A LOT of good (and so many valuable lessons) came out of the decade of grinding!
But for me, I think it is time for the “shoulds” to take a back seat 😉.
The goal for my 30’s - which has been in action for a while now - is to strike more of a balance ⚖️ between grinding and simply living.
Work hard, but LIVE more.
Study hard, but LAUGH more.
And now that much of my job requires being on screens so much, this needs to be balanced by WAY more time in nature ⛰😍
And, significantly more time socializing as running your own business(es) can be isolating ❤️
I’m extremely confident in my ability to make each of these happen and am veeerrrryy much looking forward to ALL of it!
So, here’s to 30 and the next decade of living! 🥳✌🏻⛰