11/07/2023
Studying different ways of raising children in such a way as to reveal their inner potential, I found an incredibly interesting book, every word of which resonates in my soul! 💥
The author of the book, JULES HARE, talks about how to help our children awaken their inner potential and become future leaders. To do this, it is important to believe in the child’s potential and show him an example of your leadership. The author's main idea is that parents themselves must be leaders for this. Our fears and prejudices, old models and programs can interfere with this goal and negatively affect our relationships with our children. While focused attention will help build deep and lasting relationships.
👀Our children are watching us all the time, so where we direct our attention is important. By directing our attention to children, we show that they are valuable to us. Encouragement to join in your work is much more important than praise. It is not a good idea to talk to children like to children, but better to talk to them like people, like equals. We are all human, and we can make mistakes, including when communicating with our children. Our strength is that we can truly acknowledge and honоr them.
You can read about this and much more in this book (the link will be in the first comment 👇). In the meantime, I invite you to think about some important questions: Do you consider yourself a leader and in what way? What values do you convey to your children every day? How often do you direct your lively and sincere attention to your children?
Love, Nataliia ❤️