10/29/2014
MEN who Inspire!
Today I am reminded of how INSIPIRING MEN are in our community. When we think of sewing, we often visualize a woman or young girl sewing quilts or curtains. However, I have seen so much more!
Murray would stop by frequently with challenges for me, using old clothes to fix and update his farming gear. He often would say, âCan we do THIS with THAT?â And, I would reply, âWhy not?! Letâs give it a try.â Together, we accomplished these projects successfully! Oh! Did I mention that he once brought one of his wifeâs nightgowns so that I could use it as a pattern for a beautiful new one in time for Christmas?!
A young man within the John Howard Society, who had learned basic sewing from his Grandmother at the farm, visited regularly to alter his pants. With little income, he wanted to use his skills to save money repairing his own clothing. I set up the machine, and off heâd go. His favourite part was wearing those $200 pair of jeans he found at Value Village for only $10, and hemmed at the Cafe for only $5.
Another gentleman came to the CafĂ© to learn to sew quilts, by hand! His mother had passed and he wanted to do something that reminded him of her, which happened to be hand-stitching quilts with landscapes. He admired her patience and skill with every stitch. Wasting no time, he began his lesson immediately. When leaving the store, he commented, âI feel she would be happy to see me quilting.â
Last month, Ed asked me if I could remake his wifeâs wedding dress. He mentioned that the original dress had been destroyed, and he would like to have another made exactly the same in time for his anniversary. With only a picture, and a few guesses on her size, we worked together to complete this delicate task. Several days ago, after he and his wife shared a romantic evening, he brought her to the house where her bridal gown was beautifully displayed on a dress form for her to see. Tonight he shared, âIt was a big hit!â He was grinning from ear to ear.
And I canât finish these brief stories without mentioning the âhomelessâ man who walked into my store one early spring morning. He walked in asking, âDo I buy this furniture in the hallway from you?â âActually, you would purchase those from HouseWarmings. They should be open soon.â Then, he asked, âOh! Then what do you do here?â Again, I answered his question, âI JUST sew here.â His next response left me speechless, and reflective on my personal beliefs. âJUST sew?! Itâs more than a JUST, itâs a SOMETHING! I donât understand why people say unkind things to themselves.â A gem of wisdom that I still glean from today.
Grateful!
, Carrie