05/27/2020
One VERY common theme when moms come to me for sleep advice lately is how they FEEL it is their FAULT for their child's current sleep preferences. THERE IS NO NEED TO APOLOGIZE. You are exactly the mom you were meant to be, and exactly the mom your child needs.
There are a MILLION and ONE opinions on how our child SHOULD sleep, SHOULD feed, SHOULD be. When we are SHOULD-ing someone, we are trying to impose OUR values on someone else. Well...we might just not have the same values and that's perfectly okay! We all have our own reasons to do things the way we NEED to, and CHOOSE to.
There is NOTHING WRONG with holding, nursing, rocking, cuddling, or whatever it may be to get your child to sleep. Some children are naturally better sleepers, and some want a little bit more of you during that sleep time. Our brain and body is wired to respond to our child's cry for help, so we don't need to be sorry for being simply human! If it is working, then why is it a problem?
***IT IS ONLY A PROBLEM IF IT IS A PROBLEM***. If your child's sleep preferences are taking a toll on your well-being, then perhaps it is a time to make some changes. You guessed it, there are also a MILLION and ONE ways to make changes. With that, we can choose a plan that suits you, baby, and family.