06/23/2026
Late thank you to Myrlene for her âFreedom by Designâ presentation at The Common Space last week, but some things take a little time to settle, and honestly, that feels fitting.
She said something that stopped me mid-sentence: a cluttered home isnât filled with possessions. Itâs filled with postponed decisions.
And then this: everything we hold onto begins asking something from us, quietly, every single day. We tell ourselves âout of sight, out of mind,â but she called it what it is. We just get good at pretending.
Myrleneâs framework, Mindfulism, isnât about owning less for the sake of less. Itâs about choosing, on purpose, what is enough to support the life youâre actually building. She flipped the question from âwhere can we put this?â to âdoes this belong in the life weâre creating?â
Your home should reflect the life you want to live. Not the life youâre no longer living. That one landed.
Her Freedom by Design process moves through Discover â Detach â Discern â Decide â Design. Itâs not a one-time purge. Itâs a way of thinking.
James Clear says âyou donât rise to the level of your goals, you fail to the level of your systems.â Myrlene is building the system for your space, and by extension, your mind.
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