06/08/2024
Today’s dating world is a complete zoo. No offence intended, just being descriptive. That’s why as a woman you need to have standards, strong boundaries and hold them up. Stay old fashioned and insist that a man be a gentleman when he takes you out and in his communication with you, anything less and you are out. The right man will be a gentleman, treat you well and with respect. This is how you separate the real men from the boys. 🎯💯😁
Give me that 80s, 90s, early 2000s kinda love where ‘Chivalry wasn’t dead’. Where you had to bring her flowers 💐when you had a date with a lady. Where you had to ring her doorbell, come into the house for 5 minutes, chat with her parents for a few minutes before she came out of her room so they got to help you assess him quickly. Where you had to drop her back home after the date, call her afterwards to say you had a great time and that you got home safely as well.
A time when men understood that you don’t ’Go Dutch’ on the bill when you take a woman out to dinner, you pay the bill to demonstrate to her that you are a provider. Where did decency go to? What we don’t earn, we don’t appreciate. It’s human nature. Let him make the effort, let him earn his time with you.
These days, men are asking women to meet them at the movies, restaurants, parties. Ghosting, breadcrumbing and blocking people easily are ‘a thing’. No checking to see if they got home safely after a date. Good manners are gone. Hook-ups are easy. People’s feelings don’t matter.
In this generation, we need to do better on the dating scene, if we are going to have better longer lasting and meaningful relationships. This is my mid-night rant, yes I wrote this in the middle of the night, it was just on my mind. The ladies are seriously complaining y’all. Even guys are complaining that women are too materialistic, no substance, always looking for ‘’a high value man’. Please let’s do better. Thank you 🥰🙏
Consistent communication = strong interest, even for a weak communicator. It’s that simple.
TalktoTaiwo 💞💐🌸
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