06/11/2022
I seen this on a group I am in. And wanted to share it. I hope this will be helpful as I see a lot of posts in here about children (young children!) not being able to do certain tasks.
Im a therapist and when I work with parents, we talk about development and what’s age appropriate, as well as what to expect. Many schools wait until age 6 and even 7 to start teaching reading and writing. There is very good reason for this. The left brain is more for analytical, abstract ideas. The right brain is responsible for more of the creative, artistic, imaginative things we see children do. From 0-2, the right brain is more active/“online.” From 2-4, more of the left brain is working/engaged. This is when we see kids wanting “order;” lining up cars, the need for structure to feel safe, etc. Then from 4-6, the right brain is more engaged again. So this is when the imagination typically explodes! You will see imaginative friends come to life. This tree not only looks like a monster, it IS a monster. This box not only looks like a tiger, “no mom, it IS a tiger!” Then from 6 on, typically the two sides really start to work together and bigger concepts can start to be mastered like reading, writing and arithmetic. So, I think this is HUGE relief. If a child doesn’t know their abc’s by 3, it’s okay!! If a child isn’t tracing by 3 1/2, it’s okay! Social/emotional engagement is really more important in these young years, as well as tactile exposure. And play, play, play. They are really still learning!
I added a picture of A child planting his feet.