01/17/2025
We shared our Trauma-sensitive Mindfulness Training with a group of incredible educators and admin last weekend. Thank you to all who joined us, in person and online!
As a way of befriending our nervous system, we named our states. One participant called her flight/flight ‘Forrest Gump’, hence my expression in the photo (not sure why I shied away from drama in high school😋).
For the sake of mindful living, let’s look at the four states we tend to employ when faced with stress:
Fight, which expresses itself through blame, hostility or combative communication.
Flight, which expresses itself as running away, hiding, seeking safety elsewhere.
Freeze, which happens when we withdraw, get lost in our screens, blank out or numb out.
Fawn, which happens when we attempt to please or appease others to control a situation.
What are your top two instinctive ways of dealing with stress? What would you name them?
Once we have awareness of our stress reactions, we can learn to work with them so we respond in more skillful, less harmful ways. We’ve had some pretty amazing conversations arise from this content, and it’s a great discussion to have with your students to better understand how your nervous system works…just in time for Monday’s events.