08/03/2026
Throwback Blog:
Florida Everglades, Assistant Leader Blog - Michael
Hey gamers, Michael here. Florida was a crazy ride and that didn’t stop until after the trip was done. Going into the trip, our other assistant became unable to take part in the Florida portion of the trip, and our once two sided canoe trip merged into one. I was now the only assistant for both of our leaders. Wow, that was hard.
I have a background in camp leadership, serving as a cabin leader, program coordinator, supervisor and facilities. All of these positions have lent themselves to favoring those who take the initiative to DO. Being an assistant in the crazy world of the Everglades trip was difficult, because though there was a lot of room to DO, there was also a very high need for support, which is not my strong suit. I needed to learn to lean into the idea of assisting, both in an emotional capacity and in the work. I started off the trip very DO focussed and much less assisting focused than I should have been. I was robbing my leaders of opportunities as I was doing too much and overstepping, and I was actually asked by our directors to step back. This was a humbling experience. For the first time I actually was doing too much and was subsequently not doing my job. Once I stepped back, it gave me a whole new perspective. I saw my leaders drowning, and I as the assistant was nowhere to be seen. Reworking my approach, I learned to be there for THEM. Taking a back seat and letting them lead and me assist was really enlightening. I saw the impact that being and having support can have on a leadership team; I saw my leaders do amazing things now that I wasn’t in the way; we were able to come together and delegate amongst ourselves and our crew.
Coming out of the experience I have two main lessons. I learned the importance of assistance and how being that for someone can make or break their leading experience and I learned that sometimes there is such a thing as too much DO. Finding balance between doing yourself and delegating is paramount to being a good leader and making sure to not overstep when you don’t need to is key to a healthy and efficient team dynamic. If I could do the trip again I would, and I wouldn’t change a thing. I learned so much and had a blast being an assistant. I look forward to when I can put my lessons in to play next!