02/16/2022
Digital abuse and control may be occurring to you if a current OR former intimate partner uses everyday digital technology (ie. Smart phones; social media applications; GPS systems; smart home appliances, such as smart speakers, security cameras, or alarm systems; etc.) to intimidate you, isolate you from friends and/or family, shame or degrade you online, impersonate you online, threaten and harass you with multiple phone calls or messages, monitor your whereabouts or online activity, or simply control what technology you have access to or what you do with this
technology.
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This type of abuse often looks like:
- A partner who tells you who you can and cannot be friends with in online spaces on more than one occasion.
- A partner who looks through your phone, direct messages, or email frequently to read your messages or monitor your call history.
- A partner who repeatedly sends you negative, harassing, insulting, or threatening messages.
- A partner who uses GPS devices or social media location based services and apps to monitor your whereabouts.
- A partner who pressures or coerces you into sending explicit photos, videos, or messages.
- A partner who steals or demands to know your private or security information, such as passwords to accounts, pin numbers, etc.
- A partner who withholds, deletes, or destroys your digital technology - or threatens to - as a means to control or coerce you.