05/18/2025
Hi everyone, it's been awhile but Mark Langley's message was very timely this morning. The other day I had a highly recommended equine dentist come out to work on our horses. As soon as I saw the contraption he wanted the horses to go in, I knew it would take some time for Navar to process it before going in. Unfortunately, prevalent thinking is that a horse cannot refuse and if they do, it is because they are spoiled or stubborn. I knew better but also know how hard it is to buck conventional thinking - that there is no place for a horse to have an opinion. I have had Navar since he was a yearling and he has always been a thoughtful processor that sometimes takes a little extra time; and trying to dominate or force him has NEVER worked. While we can always whack a horse, or push them around to comply; at what cost to the horse and the relationship. Of course I was disappointed that Navar didn't get his teeth done, I was more disappointed in myself and how he was handled in order to try to MAKE him compliant. I had never met this dentist before and knew he had already had a long day so I was being "nice" to him by rushing Navar. Perhaps had I been a more outspoken advocate for Navar's needs, the dentist could have enjoyed a break to give Navar the time he needed. Navar is the reason I now work with horses the way I do. I have always found those sensitive, naturally timid horses take a bit more processing time and when given the opportunity, it builds their trust and confidence and they are then willing to comply. Otherwise, they shut down completely and are labelled dull, lazy and resistant. Navar will never be that snappy, compliant horse and that is fine with me. Very grateful to have found Mark Langley's teaching as he beautifully articulates my own beliefs. My horses are cooperative, safe and kind with students because they are not treated like robots.
Mark talks through training techniques to help a young mare that can spin when a kangaroo jumps out; and for a young mare that is reluctant to go near a river bank where a predator disturbed the herd. These techniques are usual for all horses as they help to set them up to have more confidence in yo...