03/22/2024
We put way too much emphasis on obedience 😰 Obedience might sound great as a parent, but what it looks like when your child grows up is someone who doesn’t know how to properly engage in conflict or avoids it altogether - leaving them feeling miserable, helpless and controlled. The best thing you can do for yourself and your child is to give them opportunities to practice the art of proper conflict resolution. Teach them how to be heard in a disagreement and how to negotiate solutions. Teach them WHEN obedience is important - so that they know when it isn’t.
But to teach them, you need to learn for yourself first ❤️