Tyler Life Coaching-TLC

We’ve been told to “love ourselves”, but what if the real starting point is something quieter? Self-respect. In this week’s episode of the “I Never Thought I’d Be Here” podcast, I’m diving into why self-respect matters more than chasing self-love. It’s about keeping promises to yourself, setting boundaries, and choosing integrity even when it’s hard. Because you don’t build self-love by waiting for a feeling, you build it by becoming someone you can trust. If this resonates, share it with someone who needs a reminder that healing doesn’t start with perfection; it starts with one decision to treat yourself like someone who matters.

https://tyler-patfield.mykajabi.com/podcasts/i-never-thought-i-d-be-here/episodes/2149237732

”, “ ”, “ ”, “ ”, “ ”.

Self Respect Before Self Love I Never Thought I'd Be Here Podcast RESET Series | Inner Voice & Identity Series Episode: Self-Respect Before Self-Love We've all heard the phrase, "You need to love yourself." But what if that's not where healing begins? In this episode, Tyler explores the idea that self-respect—not...

You Are Not Your Worst Moment
We all have moments we'd rather forget.
A decision we regret.�A relationship that fell apart.�A failure that still follows us.�Words we wish we could take back.�Or a season of life we never thought we'd make it through.
The problem isn't that these moments happened. It's that, over time, we begin to believe they define who we are.
In this episode of The Never Thought I'd Be Here Podcast, Tyler explores the difference between guilt and shame, why our minds hold on to painful experiences, and how our inner voice can quietly convince us that we're broken because of something we've lived through.
But here's the truth: your worst moment is part of your story—it is not your identity.
Together, we'll unpack how to separate what happened from who you are, why self-compassion isn't weakness, and how healing begins when we stop carrying guilt, blame, and shame as if they're meant to define us.
If you've ever felt trapped by your past, this episode is a reminder that you are still growing, still learning, and still becoming.
Because you are more than your mistakes.�More than your failures.�More than your regrets.
You are not your worst moment.



You Are NOT Your Worst Moment You Are Not Your Worst Moment We all have moments we'd rather forget. A decision we regret.�A relationship that fell apart.�A failure that still follows us.�Words we wish we could take back.�Or a season of life we never thought we'd make it through. The problem isn't that these moments happe...

This podcast is very special! I have Jake in studio with me talking about his ride for autism across Canada over 10,000 km to raise awareness and support for autistic individuals and their families! thank you for coming on Jake. I really appreciate it and thank you for what you’re doing. Enjoy the podcast!



The Great Canadian ATC Expedition For Autism Awareness This episode is different. This time, I’m sitting down with Jake, a man taking on an incredible mission across Canada on a Honda Big Red 250 three-wheeler to raise awareness for autism, advocate for early diagnosis, and support autistic individuals and their families But this ride is about far...

In this episode of Never Thought I’d Be Here, we dive into one of the most important conversations we can have with ourselves — the inner voice we live with every single day.

The way we speak to ourselves shapes our confidence, healing, identity, relationships, and resilience more than most people realize. For many of us, that inner voice was built through pain, rejection, survival, comparison, failure, or constantly feeling like we were never enough.

Over time, those thoughts stop sounding like opinions… and start sounding like the truth.
This episode is a real, grounded, and heartfelt conversation about what it actually looks like to change your inner voice. Not through fake positivity or pretending life is perfect, but through awareness, healing, self-reflection, and learning how to stop being at war with yourself internally.

Throughout the episode, we talk about:
* where negative self-talk comes from
* how your inner voice shapes your identity
* the impact of self-criticism on mental health
* practical ways to rebuild healthier thought patterns
* healing, growth, resilience, and self-compassion
* learning how to become a safer place for yourself mentally

This conversation is for anyone who has been carrying silent battles internally while trying to rebuild themselves, heal, or simply believe that better days are still possible.
Because sometimes the biggest reset in life begins with changing the way you speak to yourself when nobody else is around.

Changing Your Inner Voice In this episode of Never Thought I’d Be Here, we dive into one of the most important conversations we can have with ourselves, the inner voice we live with every single day. The way we speak to ourselves shapes our confidence, healing, identity, relationships, and resilience more than most people....

Episode Title: Meaning Comes From Movement�The Never Thought I’d Be Here Podcast�Reset Series | Momentum & Action
In this episode, we explore a truth most of us overlook in the middle of feeling stuck, uncertain, or overwhelmed:
meaning doesn’t always arrive before action… sometimes it’s created because of it.
So many of us are waiting.
Waiting to feel ready.�Waiting for clarity.�Waiting for motivation that never seems to stay long enough.
But life rarely works that way.
In this conversation, we break down the idea that movement—no matter how small—is often what brings clarity, direction, and purpose into focus. Not the other way around.
This episode is for anyone who feels behind in life, unsure of their next step, or caught in the weight of overthinking what comes next.
Because the truth is simple, but powerful:
You don’t always need to see the whole path.�You just need to take the next step.
Through honest reflection and grounded perspective, this episode will remind you that your life doesn’t begin when everything is figured out—it begins the moment you choose to move forward, even without certainty.
And sometimes, that one small step is exactly where meaning starts to form.
If you’ve been feeling stuck, disconnected, or unsure of what comes next… this one is for you.
You don’t find meaning by waiting.�You build it by moving.

https://tyler-patfield.mykajabi.com/podcasts/i-never-thought-i-d-be-here/episodes/2149215114

Meaning Comes From Movement The Never Thought I’d Be Here Podcast �Reset Series | Momentum & Action In this episode, we explore a truth most of us overlook in the middle of feeling stuck, uncertain, or overwhelmed: meaning doesn’t always arrive before action… sometimes it’s created because of it. So many of us ar...