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09/06/2026

⛰️ THE MOUNTAIN WE CLIMB

What if the mountain you’re climbing isn’t meant to break you… but to reveal you?

Every climb exposes something—our fears, our insecurities, our emotions, our strengths, and the parts of ourselves we’ve spent years avoiding.

But here’s the truth: you don’t climb through life unchanged. Every difficult moment teaches you. Every beautiful moment becomes part of you. And every step forward creates a version of you that didn’t exist before.

And then there are the people walking beside us.

We don’t get to know how long we’ll have them. So don’t become so focused on reaching the top that you forget to experience the people you love while they’re here.

Feel the moment. Have the conversation. Make the memory. Be present.

Because life isn’t waiting for you at the top. Life is happening while you climb.

🎙️ The Mountain We Climb — a new episode of I Never Thought I’d Be Here.

https://tyler-patfield.mykajabi.com/podcasts/i-never-thought-i-d-be-here/episodes/2149252488

The Mountain We Climb What if the mountain you’re climbing isn’t there to test you—but to reveal you? In this episode of I Never Thought I’d Be Here, we explore what happens when life forces us to slow down, feel what we’ve been avoiding, and become more aware of what’s happening within ...

08/14/2026

Happy Friday Junior do you deal with those critical voices me too, and when those critical voices come in criticizing you tell them to shut up!

08/02/2026

We’ve been told to “love ourselves”, but what if the real starting point is something quieter? Self-respect. In this week’s episode of the “I Never Thought I’d Be Here” podcast, I’m diving into why self-respect matters more than chasing self-love. It’s about keeping promises to yourself, setting boundaries, and choosing integrity even when it’s hard. Because you don’t build self-love by waiting for a feeling, you build it by becoming someone you can trust. If this resonates, share it with someone who needs a reminder that healing doesn’t start with perfection; it starts with one decision to treat yourself like someone who matters.

https://tyler-patfield.mykajabi.com/podcasts/i-never-thought-i-d-be-here/episodes/2149237732

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I Never Thought I'd Be Here Podcast RESET Series | Inner Voice & Identity Series Episode: Self-Respect Before Self-Love We've all heard the phrase, "You need to love yourself." But what if that's not where healing begins? In this episode, Tyler explores the idea that self-respect—not...

07/08/2026

You Are Not Your Worst Moment
We all have moments we'd rather forget.
A decision we regret.�A relationship that fell apart.�A failure that still follows us.�Words we wish we could take back.�Or a season of life we never thought we'd make it through.
The problem isn't that these moments happened. It's that, over time, we begin to believe they define who we are.
In this episode of The Never Thought I'd Be Here Podcast, Tyler explores the difference between guilt and shame, why our minds hold on to painful experiences, and how our inner voice can quietly convince us that we're broken because of something we've lived through.
But here's the truth: your worst moment is part of your story—it is not your identity.
Together, we'll unpack how to separate what happened from who you are, why self-compassion isn't weakness, and how healing begins when we stop carrying guilt, blame, and shame as if they're meant to define us.
If you've ever felt trapped by your past, this episode is a reminder that you are still growing, still learning, and still becoming.
Because you are more than your mistakes.�More than your failures.�More than your regrets.
You are not your worst moment.



You Are Not Your Worst Moment We all have moments we'd rather forget. A decision we regret.�A relationship that fell apart.�A failure that still follows us.�Words we wish we could take back.�Or a season of life we never thought we'd make it through. The problem isn't that these moments happe...

06/26/2026

This podcast is very special! I have Jake in studio with me talking about his ride for autism across Canada over 10,000 km to raise awareness and support for autistic individuals and their families! thank you for coming on Jake. I really appreciate it and thank you for what you’re doing. Enjoy the podcast!



This episode is different. This time, I’m sitting down with Jake, a man taking on an incredible mission across Canada on a Honda Big Red 250 three-wheeler to raise awareness for autism, advocate for early diagnosis, and support autistic individuals and their families But this ride is about far...

06/24/2026

In this episode of Never Thought I’d Be Here, we dive into one of the most important conversations we can have with ourselves — the inner voice we live with every single day.

The way we speak to ourselves shapes our confidence, healing, identity, relationships, and resilience more than most people realize. For many of us, that inner voice was built through pain, rejection, survival, comparison, failure, or constantly feeling like we were never enough.

Over time, those thoughts stop sounding like opinions… and start sounding like the truth.
This episode is a real, grounded, and heartfelt conversation about what it actually looks like to change your inner voice. Not through fake positivity or pretending life is perfect, but through awareness, healing, self-reflection, and learning how to stop being at war with yourself internally.

Throughout the episode, we talk about:
* where negative self-talk comes from
* how your inner voice shapes your identity
* the impact of self-criticism on mental health
* practical ways to rebuild healthier thought patterns
* healing, growth, resilience, and self-compassion
* learning how to become a safer place for yourself mentally

This conversation is for anyone who has been carrying silent battles internally while trying to rebuild themselves, heal, or simply believe that better days are still possible.
Because sometimes the biggest reset in life begins with changing the way you speak to yourself when nobody else is around.

In this episode of Never Thought I’d Be Here, we dive into one of the most important conversations we can have with ourselves, the inner voice we live with every single day. The way we speak to ourselves shapes our confidence, healing, identity, relationships, and resilience more than most people....

06/24/2026

Tune in this Friday, Airing at 5pm

06/21/2026

New episode airing June 26! I’m super excited about this one. My good friend Jake is doing a ride across the country to raise awareness for autism and he stopped in to talk about it on the podcast tune in. It’s a fantastic episode with a very powerful message and for a great cause.

06/15/2026

Link To Jake’s Video:

https://www.facebook.com/share/v/18st1Q64Rs/

06/13/2026

Have you ever looked at your life and quietly wondered...
"Who am I anymore?"
Not because everything is falling apart.
But because somewhere between the responsibilities, the expectations, the titles, and simply surviving, you've lost touch with the person underneath it all.
If you've ever felt disconnected from yourself...�If the roles you've carried no longer fit...�If you've been asking questions you don't have answers to yet...
This episode is for you.
In this week's episode of I Never Thought I'd Be Here, we're talking about what happens when you don't know who you are, and why that doesn't mean you're lost.
Maybe it means you're growing.�Maybe it means you're healing.�Maybe it means you're being invited into a new chapter of becoming.
You don't have to have it all figured out.
You just have to take the next honest step.
🎙️ When You Don't Know Who You Are�Reset Series: Inner Voice & Identity
Listen now, and remember:
You never thought you'd be here.�But here you are.�And there is still so much life ahead of you.


https://tyler-patfield.mykajabi.com/podcasts/i-never-thought-i-d-be-here/episodes/2149217285