Roar2Radiate

08/17/2026

You wake up for no reason. No noise, no alarm, nothing wrong, except suddenly you're wide awake and your mind is already running through tomorrow like it's a threat. The meeting. The email you haven't sent. The thing you said wrong three years ago. By the time your alarm actually goes off, you're exhausted from a day that hasn't started yet.

This isn't anxiety you're failing to manage. It's cortisol and estrogen doing a poorly timed dance, and it's one of the most common, and least talked about parts of this transition.

Join and I .ca on October 3rd at our intimate threshold of shawdows full day retreat.

08/15/2026

Sorry. Sorry. Sorry for existing.

The apology before you've even said the thing. The wince when you forget a name, ask for help, take up space in a meeting. Shame shows up quiet in midlife, like existing at full volume was something I owed people an explanation for.

Your confidence isn't gone, it's buried under a body that feels unfamiliar and a culture that tells women our value peaks and declines. That's not truth. That's noise.

Join and I .ca October 3rd, as we journey through the shawdows in the threshold of midlife.

08/14/2026

Grief snuck up on me again.

Not from anything big. A song, an old photo, my kid needing me less than they used to. And then I'm crying in the car before a client call like it's nothing and everything at once.

Nobody warns you that perimenopause brings grief with it, grief for the body you had, the certainty you used to feel, the version of you who didn't need eight hours of sleep to function. It's not weakness. It's your hormones and your life stage colliding, and it deserves more than "just hang in there."

This is part of why I built the 4 R's Energy map — because RENEW isn't optional, it's strategy.

Join and I at .ca on October 3rd, as we discover the shadows we have been holding and how they show up in the thresholds in our lives.

DM - Retreat and i will share the link to our small one day retreat - only 14 seats available.

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08/13/2026

I know that face. The cool, flat, "don't test me" contempt face. I've made it myself — in meetings, at the dinner table, once at a barista who took too long explaining oat milk options.

For a long time I thought it meant something was wrong with me. Turns out it's just perimenopause doing what it does: your tolerance for nonsense drops because your nervous system has less bandwidth to spare. That's not a flaw. That's information.

Join Kerry Woodcock and I The Yurt as we walk through the shadow of thresholds. October 3rd, 2026.

08/11/2026

Join us for our next gathering, Shadow At the Threshold- Oct 3rd- .ca near Calgary. We are talking the dark side of the midlife for women.

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08/03/2026

Join us for our next Gathering on the threshold of the equinox. At our Threshold of Shadows gathering we will explore the dark side of midlife and menopause.



The Yurt Kerry Woodcock

06/17/2026

The Solstice doesn't repeat this year.

Telling yourself you'll do it later just means your waiting. And waiting to be ready means we will see you next year.

This year, our Threshold of Becoming Solstice Gathering is being held Yurt in Cochrane. Saturday 20th June.

Join us and see what Sunday feels like.

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06/14/2026

We still have sports available, please join us next week for our Solstice gathering.

A retreat for women 40+ ready to pause, reconnect with who they are becoming, and step into the next chapter with clarity & intention.

06/13/2026

Overwhelmed, uncertain, lacking clarity. It's okay your just recalibrating. New programs just launched to help you regardless of what threshold has got you stuck.

06/12/2026

Are you a 40+ women who has lost your energy, focus or drive, and looking to understand your body and mind better. My new programs are now launched.