08/07/2026
Today, I did something fear had held me back from doing: I went live.
For a long time, I recorded and uploaded my videos because recording allowed me to correct mistakes and make everything feel perfect. Today, I chose action over perfection.
This is the first article in my Elevated Brick Library.
Brick #1: Fear Is a Liar—What Is Fear Holding You Back From?
Fear Is a Liar: What Is Fear Holding You Back From?
Fear is often described as false evidence appearing real.
Many of us allow fear to control how we live, the decisions we make, and the opportunities we pursue. But fear does not always announce itself clearly. Sometimes it shows up disguised as imposter syndrome, perfectionism, procrastination, or comparing ourselves to someone else.
One of my fears was doing live videos.
I used to record my videos instead because I wanted everything to be perfect. I wanted to make sure my message was acceptable and that I looked and sounded polished. I compared myself to experienced speakers who appeared confident and comfortable on camera, and I worried that I would not be as good as they were.
Then I realized something important:
I am just as worthy of being heard as anyone else.
I have a right to be here. I am allowed to take up space. My voice deserves to be heard because I have a message that needs to be shared.
Fear can stop us from pursuing our dreams and stepping into what we know may be our calling. We sit back and watch other people succeed. We cheer them on, celebrate their victories, and sometimes even pay money to watch professional athletes
compete and pursue their dreams.
Meanwhile, fear keeps us sitting on the sidelines of our own lives.
We willingly watch other people play their game, but why are we unwilling to step onto the field and play our own?
Maybe your next step is taking a cooking class, starting a business, applying for a new position, speaking up in a meeting, or finally sharing an idea you have kept to yourself.
Why not you?
Your voice deserves to be heard. You are allowed to take up space. Do not dim your light or make yourself smaller so that someone else can feel bigger, stronger, or superior.
Fear does not have to keep you on the sidelines.
Stand up and take the first step toward the life you want and the person you were created to become. Do not spend your life living according to someone else’s expectations.
Choose to live intentionally and purposefully.
Take one step today toward creating the life you have always wanted.
You do not have to overcome every fear at once.
You only need to lay one elevated brick at a time.
Your Elevated Brick Reflection
What is fear currently stopping you from doing?
What is one small step you could take today, even while the fear is still present?
You do not have to walk through it alone. Share your fear with me, and we can begin working through it together.